The material presented
here is not Al-Anon Conference Approved Literature. It is a method
to exchange
information, ideas, feelings, problems and solutions on a personal
level.
At the moment, I am trying to complete a major piece of work. I had not contact my supervisor in this for a long time and he contacted me today. Finally I have faced up to this and instead of putting things off as I usually do, I told him my action plan and asked him what he needed me to do to fit into the criteria. Please say some prayers for me. I have so much to do but it is the first time that I have not stuck my head in the sand and gone on avoidance tactics. I do hope he will be understanding about some of the solutions I have thought of but I am not leaving it in HPs hands. Normally I would blame the alcoholic ex-a for these things but finally I am taking responsibility for what I need to do.
Been right where you are. In fact, I am at my desk saying, where do I start? Great progress on your part. I am now able to do the scarey things first, ask for help, and forgive myself for being flawed. I told myself as I came to work that I want to work, I am grateful for the extra money, and I can do it and then leave it and go home.
well that says a lot about your program because I've done the blame game for years. I dont' much like being responsible at all but I know where irresponsible got me.
