The material presented
here is not Al-Anon Conference Approved Literature. It is a method
to exchange
information, ideas, feelings, problems and solutions on a personal
level.
I've been in MIP over two years. I have made lots of wonderful friends, shared some of my experiences with you all. I feel I have been Involved in helping lots of people get started in their recovery. I have stayed with them, and continued to encourage and support them, outside mip, they will know who they are.
On a downside, since I joined mip, there have been individuals who i guess just don't understand my humour, who i am, and that's alright. I have had more confrontations than most..lol I feel there is still a few people will never accept me for who i am. I now feel i have moved myself onto a new level of recovery.
I have not been to face to face meetings for almost three months. And I've not been in the chatroom very much either. I am discovering myself, my innerself, who i really am. I am enjoying it, and every new day i learn something else about myself, good or bad.
I have lots of online friends in my life. Also meeting lots of ACOA's outside of Al-anon and we are getting to know eachother. I am spending time with one person, we have been in each others life since Jan. He is an Acoa also. We are taking our time getting to know each other. He is teaching me how to love. How to give and accept love.
For the time being i am content with my life..Life is FAB..I'm a "work In Progress" "I Am What I Am" and if thats not good enough for certain people, well that's their problem, not mine....
It's nice having you as a friend and I have learned from your recovery. Stay teachable girl friend and remember, It's "principals before personalities". Just forgive em and smile. The door is never locked and the light is always on.
You are such a joy and treasure to this board. I hate to loose you because some members don't understand you. I'm sure there are plenty of people who "don't get me" either. But that's their issue not mine. I come here for me. The love I feel here is more than enough to sustain me if others choose not too. You will be missed. Thank you for your service. I sent you a PM because I lost your email (oops). Take good care of Ally. She's a very special person. Much love and blessings to you and your family.
Live strong, Karilynn & Pipers Kitty
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It's your life. Take no prisoners. You will have it your way.
Ally - this board will certainly miss you. Your posts have inspired me and helped clarify things for me. I wish you well as you continue on your path. Take care.
I will miss your posts and your esh. You have a beautiful spirit and a wonderful sense of humor. I'm gonna second what Jerry said "it's principals above personalities" For me I remind myself I'm not responsible for what other's opinions are. Sending you positive thoughts on your journey in recovery. I will miss you
"I Am What I Am" and if thats not good enough for certain people, well that's their problem,
Then I guess I can't understand why you would leave??
This is a program of unity where we accept others defects, work on our own and attempt to progress in our recovery. Granted, I don't know the situation and we all have choices. Just know you are not a victim unless you choose to be.
Christy
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If we think that miracles are normal, we will expect them. And expecting a miracle is the surest way to get one.
I don't know you very well, Ally, but I have read your posts. I wasn't aware of conflict with other members, and I am sorry you feel that way.
I've found, for me, there are always going to be people who don't agree or accept me as I am, be it at a job, in a social group, or my own family, for that matter.
I've even had some pretty harsh words with fellow AA members, but with the help of the steps, I have been able to let go of that and not let anyone deter me from doing what I need to do in my recovery.
I wish you nothing but the best!
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"If a dog will not come to you after having looked you in the face, you should go home and examine your conscience." - Woodrow Wilson
Thank You for all your kind wishes. Christy, I am following my own path. Because in time, i will allow certain people to pull me off my road to recovery, and that's a chance i am NOT willing to take....not anymore.
Anyone who would like to stay in touch, please feel free to pm me with your e.mail. I have contact with most of my friends..
I was not aware of any conflict. I am a bit surprised by this. i can't imagine how it got out of hand enough to make you want to leave us. I am so sorry to see you go. Hope you can come back soon. I will miss your insight and inspriration. I will keep you and your new SO in my good thoughts. Hope you are both well. Would you at least pop in and let us know how you and he are doing once in a while? Ah well, you are in HP's hands. You'll be fine.
Love in recovery,
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~Jen~
"When you come to the edge of all you know you must believe in one of two things... there will be earth on which to stand or you will be given wings." ~Unknown
Please don't burn any bridges.. maybe say you are taking a break and then come back and be welcomed with open arms. You were one of the first to help me out and I will be blunt....
open door at mip