The material presented
here is not Al-Anon Conference Approved Literature. It is a method
to exchange
information, ideas, feelings, problems and solutions on a personal
level.
Thanks to you all for being there for me and the rest of us Alanoners and the Alanoners that don't know they need us. I come here and post with my "big and heavy" burdens and you always help me up when I can't do it for myself. There is such power in our experience, strength and hope. Just because I know you will be there in cyberspace or at my F2F meetings keeps me going. I still have my AHsober in my life throwing his "I want a divorce papers" at me. I still don't know what to do except do what I am doing - go to work, do my chores, take care of myself, go to meetings, read the literature, and sometimes do nothing. When will it all end? How will it end? I don't know but because of Alanon I know that it will end. My HP says that there is something better for me. You can't rush it though.
As Ellen DeGeneres said in one of her recent shows, "Right back at ya! Keep it, and put it in your pocket for later... but don't forget to take it out before you put your pants in the wash!" LOL
Aloha Nancy...and anytime you need someone will be here for you.
You are doing the same slogan I love so much. "When in doubt....dont!!"
I don't make decisions other than to hold on when I have doubts about what I am supposed to do. During those period of time I let my HP work with me mind, body, spirit and emotions and it does arrive sometimes quickly sometimes slowley.