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Did you know a 2 year old can say "daddy can we go pub"
Yes my 2 year old APARENTLY said this yesterday. It was a nice day and I said to mark take Leah outside and play football. Well after 10 mins it went quiet I looked outside and no one was there. When he came back I asked where ahve you been he said Leah wanted to play pool in the pub HUH???????
(((((((mum))))))))), I am struggling for words. I am trying to put myslef in that situatuon and trying to think what I would do, ummm lol everytime I do it always ends the same and it isn't pretty.
Just remember to T.H.I.N.K. before you say sanything to him. Is it Thoughtful, Honest, Intellegent, Necessary, and Kind. If I do that before I say anything to my hub, then I stop myself from saying most of what I want to, but don't need to be saying.
Yours in recovery, Mandy
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"We are not punished for our unforgiveness, we are punished by it" Jim Stovall
It is amazing just what these two y'olds can do and say according to their AFs. I was speechless at some of the things mine were supposed to be capable of saying and doing, for years and years.
I like Mandy's response. T.H.I.N.K.
Don't go there unless you know you can deal with the garbage* you are bound to get thrown at you...
*substitute to any other more suitable word you feel you want to replace it with...this is the nicest way of putting it without sinking to the cesspit mentality, and I REFUSE TO SINK THAT LOW.
Suzannah
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Out of the ruin of my past I have found the fortress of myself and I know how to defend it.
Strive for WISDOM; Seek SERENITY; NEVER compromise your INTEGRITY.
