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hi family, Most business obstacles do not get me to tears and frustration.
About six months ago I wanted to do a loan mod.I had to put handicapped access things in my home.I need them for about 25% of my life right now. Most were outside.
The Mortgage company made mistake after mistake. I called a lot because I am diligent about taking care of things pronto so they don't hang around.
They would NOT allow me to make a payment until they got all the info. I faxed the info 5 or more times. They made excuse after excuse.
Then because of this they charged ME late charges. AND when this air head person who finally got my "lost" file, did not let the foreclosure dept know of all the mistakes.
I got charged thousands for late payments, attorney fees,and misc fees. NOW I was told by them to dispute. A person was to research this and call me at 5:30 am MY time, their time 8:30.NO CALL CAME.
I have been working on getting someone since 7:30 this morn.
I cannot even put a (o: or a lol as I am so seriously p.o.ed. You guys know it takes a lot to make me mad or more for me to choose to be angry.
Realitors are coming to my house,people are making offers....this was NOT to have happened.
They had my loan in the wrong name also. It was changed to mine, years ago.
Thank goodness for my toolbox with the pain pills for this headache!!! Not really thank you for the tools of being tenacious, not getting depressed and cocooning, for doing what I can, then let go.
I long for the days with out computers. Though there is good in them also.
But the days you could walk into your bank or mortgage co and fix it face to face!!!!
No wonder the real estate market is a mess. gads.
But it does not make me not show love and laugh,like it is to my son.
He forgot to pay the cell billllllllll. I payed it,called him and said I am not upset. I paid thebill and need his part back by the 29th. I have my mortgage payment then.That is not a problem, however if it became one,which is not here yet, I would lose all the scrimping to get it a month ahead.
I need feed, hay and me food. The mort.company took money that was not theirs.
So you probably can see what is making me HALT. Dreamed about losing my home, am hungry so feel weak and tired.
I do have enough feed for a few days and a bit of hay.
If I made my own obstacles, or when I do,I just fix it....dear henry.....
Do not want to write a pd check to the feedstore as that will mess me up for next month.
I need a nap. Would someone bring me a garden burger,big green salad with shrimp, and a piece of soy cream cheesecake??Oh and a big glass of lemonade?????
and chocolate....see now in my head I see my husband and want to crawl into his always were there open arms,we would get thru it together.Thou this crap did not happen when we were working in this life as one...
arrrrrg, love you's,thanks for listening to me vent. debilyn and critters
I dropped a veggie burger in the mail LOL Don't know how it'll be when it gets there. Sounds like you already have the lemons for the lemonade. I hope this gets worked out. I hate dealing with big mortgage companies over the phone and banks, the right hand never knows what the left hand is doing. That's a large part of the reason I lost the truck, I would call and call and tell them to come get it and of course they could never get it right.
Figured that if I sent you the picnic it would be mouldy by the time you got it or, you would have passed out from hunger the time BRITISH MAIL had got around to delivering it.
I do know what it is like. I often wonder about 'phone-rage'...and the stress these companies needlessly put people through.
Sad to hear that this is happening.
If there was something practical that I could do, hmm - now let me think - shoot the Mortgage boss? Or kidnap his wife until he personally got it put right and apologised for your stress? Then again, I could stage a covert siege outside his front door and not let anyone in or out until he had got his act together? I could even send in the Royal Marines to stand over him - though they have got their hands full at present since the army recalled Ginge back home?
Instead I am sending you a really, really BIG ((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((HUG))))))))))))))))))))))))
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"The highest form of wisdom is kindness." The Talmund
I know that feeling of frustration. For me it was dealing w/hubby's temporary idiot doctor, then an insurance company, etc. I just wanted to slap them all with a trout and shout: "WAKE UP PEOPLE!" I would gladly slap your people around too!
I'm thinking that instead of sending you food in the mail, I should do a road trip. Then I could cook for you! There's only one condition: Keep the frogs out of my way! Feel better soon. Love and blessings to you and your Eden family.
Live strong, Karilynn & Pipers Kitty
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It's your life. Take no prisoners. You will have it your way.
I can get run ragged by this stuff. I have to slow way down to one minute at a time sometimes. I try to have small really small goals and work from there.
I so sympathize with you. Fighting "the Man" and mistakes they made. As we get older thinking where is the money coming from and what if I can't work. And I so wish my AHSober was here with me to soften the hard places. We, too, did this life together and were very successful at it. I almost think that is why he left because we were getting successful and he couldn't handle it. So I have to trust the program and find that guidance, solace, and serendity in my higher power. Hope you get your great meal!
