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Heartbroken


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I have got through days of NOT giving in, NOT paying the bill, NOT folding under the clever, intense, daily manipulation and I am feeling good.

My daughter has had to go sort the mess out for her self and I have NOT played the rescuer.

And, y'know what, I DON'T FEEL GUILTY AND I DON'T FEEL BAD, AND I DON'T FEEL A FAILURE.

So I am having a party for myself today...just for today I experienced what it feels like to be ON TOP of THE GAME.

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-- Edited by Heartbroken at 06:47, 2008-02-22

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Karilynn


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((((((((((Heartbroken)))))))),

WOOHOO! clap.gif Well done! Keep up the good work.  Now go out and do something nice for you! cake.gif  Love and blessings to you and your family.

Live strong,
Karilynn & Pipers Kitty party.gif

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(((((HB))))) SO happy for you - "top of the game" is the best feeling in the world. Celebrating with you from across the pond. Way to go! Woo-hoo!
~R3

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maresie


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Tremendous. I am happy for you.

Maresie.

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Aloha


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That's so wonderful to hear, HB! I'm very happy for you!

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Jerry F


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((((hugs))))     

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Tiger2006


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*cue the music* Celebrate good times, CMON!
Celebrate!

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nmike


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(((((heartbroken))))

Hope you example gives me the courage to say no, no, no, to my son.
Good for you!

In support,
Nancy

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Maria123


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SO COOL ((((((((((Heart)))))))))))))),

I can see so much progress and growth and it makes feel so happy for you.

Hmmmmmmm, perhaps the next stage of your growth will harvest a nick such as "HopefulHeart"  biggrin

love,
Maria

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Dru

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Tuggboat


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You go !!

Today I am working on a new version of an old one. Couple buttons gently nudged today but Just for today.... I will not take the bait. :)

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Doesn't progress feel good? Way to go, Heart. And I think Hopeful sounds great, too.

Hugs,

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((((HB))))


WOOOO HOOO!!!!!w00t.gif You are so well deserving of a celebration clap.gif

ENJOY!!

YOU HAVE EARNED IT!!! biggrin

Love and Blessings,

Claudia

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