The material presented
here is not Al-Anon Conference Approved Literature. It is a method
to exchange
information, ideas, feelings, problems and solutions on a personal
level.
I am coming up to a year since I left the A. I am compiling a list of the obstacles I have to getting some place better, money, health, isolation, dental work, glasses, transportation, you name it. I'm putting it out there for hP to heal. I also have a shortage of furniture and other items I need to move to someplace decent to live. Where I am now is a little better but it is not someplace I need to be long term. I am detemined to move on.
I am also determined to be in a place where the A canot reach me in time. I want him out of my life permanently. I'm not setting a timeline but I am willing to look at the obstacles.
You're doing so good! Remember how impossible it all seemed and now look where you are. I feel the same way. In the beginning it seems as if you can't live without them and in the end it's hard to imagine how you ever lived with them so long! Strange huh? In time everything will come to you!
