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Hi, since it is not cool for me to go out to events without getting accused of something, is there an online Sponsor or is it here in the forum? thank you.
I have known people to do this on here. However, it is my thought it would be cool to wait until you see someone you tend to feel comfy around and you feel is in a good space as far as alanon.
Harder to do online.I don't do it anymore becuz if I get sick or computer goes down, I feel I cannot be consistant.
Maybe try posting more and sharing all you can we all can help you. WE can share our own experiences of what you described.
hey I would put deoderant on and this one boyfriend thought I was going to the store to meet someone....geez.
we are here for you. also there is pm where if you need some private talk,pm someone.You just click on their name then on their profile you will see, send message...hugs,debilyn
When I first started Al-Anon, my AH accused me of running up and down the road and going to meet men).
I went anyhow and let him "ramp and rave." After a while, I started going to the "after meeting meetings", too. There was more name-calling from AH. After about 6 months of this, he quit raving about it. I guess he learned that he couldn't control me. Even though this was hard for me, my Al-Anon friends encouraged me to "keep coming back."
You're the only one who knows your situation. If you believe he might physically harm you, you might have to take another strategy. This board and also our chatroom are excellent. Your A sounds really controlling so if you can go to daytime meetings that would be good. If not, I strongly suggest that you hook up for counseling from a Women's Shelter.
Guard your computer whether or not he's computer literate and post as much as you want to - we're here for YOU. Hugs, Carolena
