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hi all been 9 days since i posted..just need prayers for my daughter and unborn granddaughter.she has 9 weeks to go.but she is having problems..she has already started to dilate she is at 2 centimeters..she has been having lower back pain..the doctor she saw today,said the baby isnt gaining alot of weight{the baby weighs about 1 and half pounds}and her lungs are not developed..he said she is going to be very tiny,they are hoping she will go to at least 38 weeks{7 weeks}that will give the baby a little more time to grow and for the lungs to develope{sorry cant spell today}i really hate as i want to be up there but i cant at the time not until i have surgery on jan 12 and depending on how that turns out{i may have cancer,haveing a biopsy that day}so hopefully next month i can go to ny to be with my daughter and that she will go that long before having the baby...please just keep my daughter in your prayers{this is her 3rd child and she is only 20}thank you
Love and prayers for all of your family. Take good care of yourself. Your granddaughter is going to need you. Hang in there, it's amazing what they can do with premies.
Live strong, Karilynn & Pipers Kitty
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Aloha Bev!! Of course you have the prayers and concern for both your daughter and yourself. Work on releasing or reducing any fear you both might be having regarding your conditions. The opposite of fear is faith and faith helps toward positive outcomes. ((((hugs))))
You and your daughter and that precious baby will be in my prayers. I have just come through a year of treatment for cancer. That word can throw fear into your very soul, but I managed it and believe me, the prayers of my friends and family really really mattered. You have a lot to deal with, but you will take it step by step. Stay strong.
Prayers are coming your way. I remember when I was pregnant and had a car accident. The person behind me was flying and was trying to pass me, but she hit my car so hard it went skidding into the car in front of me. My car was totaled and everyone kept asking me if I was okay. I felt fine. I think I must have been in total shock because I didn't realize I was in labor. I finally went to the hospital and was sent home the next day after being given medication to stop the contractions. I kept going into labor until they sent me home with an infusion pump and a machine to monitor and send via phone the report. I kept having to go into the hospital. Finally at 35 weeks, I went into labor for the last time. My baby was 5.5 lbs. He stopped eating and they found out he had nectrotizing entrocolitis. They were giving him antibiotics to rid the infection in his bowel. On the day of my discharge, the doctor came to tell me that his intestine perforated and he was being rushed to a hospital for emergency surgery. His chances of survival were 1%. I went into the chapel of the hospital and poured my heart out to God to please save my baby. A miracle happened. He survived. He had an ileostomy for four months and had just enough small intestine to reverse it. Today he has a tiny scar. Miracles do happen. After I left the chapel, relief came over me and I laid down to sleep during his surgery because I knew everything would be okay. Keep your faith!
thank you all for the lovely posts and prayers,reading what some of you say helps but im still worried about my unborn granddaughter,and i pray to god that she goes to term and the baby is healthy and at least 5 lbs,with this going on there is notime for me to worry about my own health
You must be so exausted and concerned. I hope you have people around you to support you. Do you have someone to go to the biopsy with you?
I will keep all of you in my prayers. I actually know a little girl, well she is a woman now who weighed about that when she was born.
They are doing amazing things now with babies born too early. Your girl sure must have her hands full. I had my first at 21. Thought I was so ready. haha
I honestly was not really "ready" until I was 47! Little late eh?
I sure hope it all goes well. Whatever happens know there are people out here that don't even know you, that honestly care.
