The material presented
here is not Al-Anon Conference Approved Literature. It is a method
to exchange
information, ideas, feelings, problems and solutions on a personal
level.
I received the call last night at 12:50 a.m. that my A BF passed away. I was told that he went peacefully and was in no pain and I am very thankful for that. I loved him very, very much and I will miss him very, very much.
Through this tragedyI am going to tell my dad that I can not stand to loose another person I love to this disease. Hopefully, he will listen to what I have to say.
I appreciate all the support that everyone has given me and all the helpful advice. It has helped more than you know.
(((((((((((((((((((Marie))))))))))))))))))))) I'm so sorry for your loss. It reminds us all how fragile life is and how this disease robs not only the A of life, but takes a piece of all of us with them. And if ANYTHING good can come of his passing, maybe it's that you can reach out to your dad and at least let him know how much his life and health mean to you. We ALL know that we can't change them, but I'm a firm believer in letting those we love know that we love them and care about them no matter what.
Know that your A BF is now in the loving arms of his HP - where there is no more pain and disease. He was lucky to have had you while he was here. He knows that you cared. Take good care of you now.
So, so sorry for your loss. So, so glad his passing was peaceful.
Praying now for your heart to be filled with comfort as you go through the next few days of adjustment, and then praying for your future to be healthier.
Love, Susan
__________________
"The highest form of wisdom is kindness." The Talmund
I am terribly sorry for your loss. There is a part of me that dreads ever getting that kind of call. At the same time for me sometimes the A's acting out meant that was a very realistic proposition.
