The material presented
here is not Al-Anon Conference Approved Literature. It is a method
to exchange
information, ideas, feelings, problems and solutions on a personal
level.
I was wondering if anyone is able to be my sponsor. I am in desperate need of help and need to start working the steps of this program. My life is out of control and I can no longer tolerate this pain any longer. I am looking forward to being fully dedicated to this program and all it has to offer. Thanks and I look forward to hearing back from people!!
Just a suggestions, are you going to F2F meetings?? That would be a good place to look for a sponsor. I was told that I should find the person who had something I wanted--who had a program that I wanted to have--and ask that person. I don't know how you go about doing that in cyberspace, but I am sure there are folks that have done it.
In my case, I was drawn to a woman in my homegroup who was so serene even though her AH was still active. I listened to her shares and decided that she must be doing something right, and I wanted it too!! I was very nervous about asking her to be my sponsor, but my HP took care of it. Before I could ask her, she came up to me and said that I could call her anytime to talk. That took the fear away for me so I asked and she accepted.
Congratulations on deciding to take care of you and to get healthy!!
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Do not be anxious about tomorrow; tomorrow will look after itself. The Bible, from Courage to Change, p.138