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I spoke to the consumer credit place today. They want a huge payment every month. I've actually made more than that payment monthly for the past few months. I must admit huge gops of rage came up at the A. The money I spent on him, how I tried till I was almost vertical to get him to sanity.
I am not rushing into anything. I am going to mull it over. Obviously a lot is up in the air for me at this time. I sitll have a job (for how long who knows). I can get another job over time - Carolina girl and others let me know that is possible.
I am going to give myself some breathing room and rest tonight and see what I can come up with in ways of a plan. That kind of pyament is a huge commitment for me. I will have to reorganize my life around it.
Of course I organized every breath i took for 7 years around the A I don't know why I find it so daunting.
Keep your head up. Sounds like you are moving in a good direction. Some people say things always work themselves out. Not sure if I feel that optimistic right now, but I do know that just when I think financially, "what am I going to do"? something-money or opportunity- always has a strange way of becoming available or comes out of nowhere.
You'll figure it out. Just do what is the best thing for you and don't set yourself up on a payment plan that you can't foresee being able to manage. Like you said you know the job is ending shortly and you may be living on a reduced unemployment income. That is something to seriously consider. Perhaps bankruptcy is a way to go? I always just let mine go and paid the ones I felt were important, it has worked out for me.
yes, explore all your options, and donīt put yourself under unnecessary hardship, if you have declare bankrupcy do it, rather than worry yourself to death, thats what its there for,
