The material presented
here is not Al-Anon Conference Approved Literature. It is a method
to exchange
information, ideas, feelings, problems and solutions on a personal
level.
Hi, I am living with an alcholic and at times it is not good. The verbal assalts are so rough, I find myself apoligizing for things that i didnt do and i fear the abandonment due to childhood stuff. This weekend I was really not good but I found comfort and people to talk with in the chat room here at alanon. Thank you everyone who took the time out just to listen and help out. You are the best and I do hope that someday I also can be of assistance to someone...I go to the online meetings also...they are the best since I cannot get out due to me being accused of seeing someone, thank you for having the online meetings...
Glad you found the chat room and posted here too. I can relate to all the things I felt the blame for and found I was saying sorry for things I never did. It is amazing how confusing it can be to live with an A. I do feel like I am literally going crazy and it is wonderful to have this board to write down what is going on. I often get a new perspective from someone else....sort of like you can't see the forrest for the trees when you are in the middle of it all. Remember you didn't cause it, can't control it and can't cure it but you can change how you think about what is going on. Stay safe and keep posting, chatting and attending those online meetings. So glad you are here.
hugs, ddub
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