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Belladay


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I want to thank everyone for all the support you have given me. I just love posting here and reading and responding to what people are saying. I am starting to recognize user names now and get excited to read what has happened next. I was in a bad space today from my last post and you all were so supportive that I am ok now. My SH is upset but I am not worried about it. I am allowing him the space he needs and wants when he is upset and I am so good at not allowing him to have. I can really sometimes suffocate him when he is upset and backs away. After reading what you guys wrote I feel that I can let him work through it. I have you all and I don't have to panic. I just feel a stable, it's ok kind of feeling.

Thanks again,
Bella

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maire rua


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I've been in that space you were in, its no joke, good to hear your doing better,

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ddub


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the MIP family does provide a wonderful place to go when our thoughts

start spinning.  It can be a release for panic or anxiety, just having someone

to bounce ideas off or acknowledge our pain.  Some pain cannot be avoided but

we have to just go through it to get to the otherside.  That stable, ok kind of

feeling is wonderful, too.  As you can see, I hear you and can relate definately.

Wishing you a peaceful day.

hugs from ddub

-- Edited by ddub at 08:58, 2007-11-08

-- Edited by ddub at 10:21, 2007-11-08

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carosie


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hi Bella,
  Glad you are feeling ok...that in itself is a wonderful feeling after dealing with alot of chaos.  Detachment is a wonderful tool to use when we feel like we are getting sucked into someone else's drama.  I know for me it sometimes isn't easy of letting go of trying to fix things for others we love.  Keep working it...you are worth it.

your friend in recovery,
rosie

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