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He went out this afternoon and stayed about three hours. I think he has been drinking. He is avoiding me, because he knows I can detect it immediately. His voice has "that sound." I am convinced it will never end.
OK, OK. Breathe. Keep myself calm and in order. I'll make it. Damn, I hate this.
Diva
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"Speak your truth quietly and clearly..." Desiderata
Oh crap, Diva. I'm so sorry. Please stay close and let us know how you are doing!!!
You are one tough lady, you have a lot of program, and you have clarity. I know YOU will be OK, it's just so disappointing and unwelcome. Hang tight, keep in touch here.
For some reason I thought you A was sober. Maybe wishful thinking for you. Sorry hun. That was always a true sign was the avoidance. I could be in the living room and he will stand in the kitchen, or if I'm in the kitchen he goes to the living room. Then if he slurs and I catch him it irates him. Then it goes down hill from there. Now he doesn't do it because he knows I will make him drive four hours back home. So he just doesn't come at all. Girl, I'm with you in this and I understand. Go into a different room and relax. Enjoy the night some how. Love ya chickie. Mwah
Yup,,,breathe,,,,focus on something else, keep busy,,I have been there many times ((((((Diva)))))))) , and please go ahead and vent on here because venting at him falls on deaf ears, but we will listen.
