And it's good to know we can here and get them when we need them! I could not sleep much last night because I could not get the stuff I posted about last night off my mind. Plus, I had too much caffiene and nictotene so it's my own fault. But I so appreciated response from those of you who did and I was able to get up this morning feeling much better and pull things back into perspective. I also work with someone who was in the same predicament but her A has gone out of state to rehab where he has made huge progress. She knows what I'm talking about and made me feel even better. So thanks to you all again!....jaja