The material presented
here is not Al-Anon Conference Approved Literature. It is a method
to exchange
information, ideas, feelings, problems and solutions on a personal
level.
I went to the visit on Friday, despite a letter not coming in the mailbox. I was determined to do it I suppose. It was ok, I was kind of mean (from his perspective) guess it was really just brutal honesty. I laughed at him a few times. It would be easier if we didn't have good rapport. Anyway, I was glad I went and it didn't make me feel bad. I think I was hoping I would be disgusted by him or know that it's just over, but that didn't happen. I am glad I went though.
Aloha Carolinagirl!! You're satisfied with what you did and why. Sounds like good consequences to me. I see growth here. Nice that you didn't feel disgusted with a sick person. Good share!! (((((Hugs)))))