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lilms


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(((((MIP Family))))))

I made an appointment to go a talk with an impartial person tomorrow.  I love my friends but they are definitely biased.

I have been sorting out bank accounts, am going to go and open a new one at a different bank tomorrow also.  Am going to be taking on more hours at one of my jobs.

Only thing left to do is figure out how to disengage while I am still living in this house.

Still no sadness yet, just a little bit of anxiety.

Again, thanks all for listening

lilms

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Also, I need to figure out how to say to her that this is happening without being angry while I am doing it. Have never hit anyone in my life but I do know that I am amazing and very quick with words. Don't want to say things if I become angry that I don't really mean.

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Rita G


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((lilms))

When the anxiety comes over me, I try to remember to Just Breathe.

I also can be very hurtful with words, I try to ask my HP to let me convey my feelings/emotions and thoughts without being mean, hurtful or mallicious.

I'm sure your HP will guide you in the right direction.

Saying prayers & sending thoughts of peace your way,
Rita


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(((lilms))

Sounds like the plan is coming together.  I don't know your significant other, but you may want to make sure that all is in place before you bring it up.  For sure these things take time and preparation and I would hate to have you living in hell if you couldn't leave when you needed to.

You got my e-mail addy...anytime my friend

Christy

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