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lilms


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((((((Friends)))))))

I truly believe I am at the point of being done.  I love my partner but have not for a very long time enjoyed this relationship.

I am going to continue along with plan B (amassing funds etc).

I cannot believe how extremely calm I am about this, not sad, not broken hearted, none of that.  No feeling at all actually.

It is odd, my partner is not the A in our life but she has more aisms than any person I have ever dealt with.  And she likes them.

A wee bit back Diva had posted a response I believe about finding your "happy heart".  I do not have that component of me in this relationship.

I am happy with me, I am not happy with this.

Thanks for listening all

lilms

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(((((Lilms)))))

Good for you! That calm may just be acceptance of the situation and appreciation that you are not trapped. You have choices and you have a plan that will allow you to decide what you want.

Stay or go, finding that contentment is worth the trip.

Take care of you!


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Rita G


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lilms,

wishing you the best as you decide where you want to go with your relationship,

((Hugs))

Rita


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My plan B was pretty hodge podge so I urge you to be calculating and take your time If you have it.

I have new plan B's.

Money is a big part of it.

Maresie.

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