The material presented
here is not Al-Anon Conference Approved Literature. It is a method
to exchange
information, ideas, feelings, problems and solutions on a personal
level.
I just read your post from several days ago regarding your sons' birthday and your feelings towards your A and that situation . Sorry this is late, but here's a hug from me to ((((((((((you))))))))))! I hope your days have been better since then!
Hang in there ~ I've been there and it does get a little easier with time. I still have days that I'm resentful and angry that my A's disease is with ME, as well as HIM, for the rest of our lives. I am always in contact with my HP to help me cope.