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maresie2


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In his usual dramatic fashion the A claims to be leaving today.  He wanted me to pack for him last night.  I did not as I have to work today.  He has now switched his answering machine off so I don't know whether he has left or not. He's left no forwarding address and I don't know when he starts work or anything.  That is his typical "geographic".  Normally I would be very upset.

Today I am detached.  I must admit this last month of moving out on my own has helped.  I've had time to regroup.

I am going to go over there for what I'm not sure.  I don't believe he will actually leave till tonight because he has so many loose ends to tie up.  I also don't believe he will be gone long.

For once I am not in crisis or on tenderhooks.  Yet I still am concerned about him. He's certainly not concerned about me or my monetary status.
Last night he expected me to buy dinner for him.  He still expects,he still demands.  He still really is in this self absorbed bubble.

His friends who have been in the driveway have nowhere else to go so I expect this saga to go through the weekend.

Maresie.

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Rita G


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((Maresie))

Praying that you will have rest & peace this weekend - Keep taking good care of you - Glad you are able to detach.

Take it One day at a Time,
Rita


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doxie


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You are doing good Maresie, keep it up. Stay strong and take care of you.

Doxie

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TLM


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Hey Maresie;

I think it is great that you are able to detach and not go into crisis over this. I am sending thoughts of peace and strength to you.

Take care of you.



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Hi Maresie,

You are in my thoughts, you are on an amazing journey and going where you choose to go and where you want to be.

Best wishes,
Barbs.x

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debilyn


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What of you? Are you getting your little room ok? do you have the two cats there?

so you have a job now? is it ok?

Just hope to hear more about you. Are you using a computer in a library?

hugs,debilyn



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