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carolinagirl


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I cancelled my date with the felon/alcoholic.  I was really excited about our date tomorrow but know that it's not going to go anywhere so I cancelled and said I couldn't talk to him anymore.  What a bummer!  It sucks doing the right thing sometimes!

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RainyJamie


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WOW I just got done reading your last post, I'm really proud of you.
Jamie

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jewely


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i am agree with RainyJamie,

WOW !!!

what an inspiration you are to me.

thank you for sharing.

blessings in recovery,

jewely

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Diva


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Maybe so CG.  But, the way I see it, you have done yourself a terrific favor!  Who needs a felon/alcoholic when there are good citizens out there by the bucket loads?  Treat yourself to a decent guy, and have some good fun!!

Good luck,

Diva

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jewely


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OOPS !!!

supposed to say......,

"i agree with RainyJamie".

jewely

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Friendofyours


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Wow! That's so great. See, you are stronger then you think. I am very proud of you.

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carolena


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(((((carolinagirl))))) that wasn't easy for you to do - BRAVO! You're right - doing the next right thing can hurt a lot. You did it!


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lin0606


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So do something else tomorrow that is healthy AND fun. I'd pick garlic prawns, ice cream and karaoke, but that's just me....

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Fifi


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What you did was healthy and showed strength and growth...I am inspired and proud of you. A friend recently told me that even tho I feel like shit, to her she sees me as being healthy because I am facing my demons and being honest with myself and growing...and even if it feels aweful, it is a motion towards a better place. You probably saved yourelf a whole bunch of pain and suffering in the long run by avoiding this guy....have a fun night yourself...and even if it is not full if thrills, be happy for the peace you feel...even if it sucks :)
love fifi

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Maria123


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Carolina,

WAY TO GO!!!

One decision at a time, one moment at a time, one day at a time.

Keep posting,
Maria

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TLC2


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Oops, I didn't see this post, and posted to your last one. I am so happy for you!! You are so much more ahead than I was when I went from the frying pan to the fire!! Congrats!!! You are a wise lady! Love TLC

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tuneboon


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WOW - you are a true inspiration to me - do you give lessons?! Way to go!!!!



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