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I wrote to my friend today, the one who won't talk to me. I haven't sent it yet, as I would like to wait at least 24 hours to make sure I've said everything I need to. I told my friend that I am an alcoholic and I apologized for my behavior while drinking. I said that wasn't really me, and I am taking steps to not drink anymore, like going to AA. Then I told my friend how difficult life has been without them, and I miss my friend. I don't know if anything will happen, but at least I have a chance to get some closure, say what I need to say.
Well, it's a start. Good idea about holding off and thinking about it, to make sure you've said everything you need to say. Now all you can do is pray and your HP will take care of things! I haven't posted to any of your other posts, but I wanted you to know I really admire you and wish you luck! You should be proud of the strides you have already made!!
That is a very good start. If they are a true friend they will stick by you or let you know that they will be there once you are sober. Good luck sweetie. <3
Bravo Prof! This is exactly the right way to begin the healing process for you AND your friend. If you mail the letter, be prepared for your friend to go either way. I send all good wishes, and hope this friendship can be restored.
