My husband has been clean since Friday. Before  he got clean he was lying to me all the time, disappearing for an hour and a half. Then on wednesday he told me that he was doing herion, I was shocked I got my support system and turn to them.

I told my husband that I wanted him to start being honest with me. We had a talk and so far he has been very up front with me. He didn't have to tell me in the begin that he was doing it but he did. He has told me everything. We now for once have a honest marriage. I feel that he is honest. He told me he was sick of living a different life and lying to everyone. He seeked help which is very good I am proud of him. I have brought up going to meeting but he has to be ready for them. I just proud that he is being honest even if he does do something which he hasn't he been honest. I am very happy in life rightnow because there is the honesty. He said that he can trust me enough to tell me what he is doing now, because when he told me i keep my cool, I didn't scream or yell. He said he been trying to tell me for months he was afaird that i was going to leave. When i first found out I was shocked, but with the help of the program I am able to deal with it. So I am learning to trust him again.