The material presented
here is not Al-Anon Conference Approved Literature. It is a method
to exchange
information, ideas, feelings, problems and solutions on a personal
level.
I had an experience at a f2f mtg that ... well ... writing a bit about it here clarified it for me. But I don't think I'll post about it. It is a bit of a gray area of whether to post or not. But as discretion is often the better part of valor, I'll just say:
I hope the person will keep coming back. Their pain and agitation was immense.
So good to see you. Hope all is well with you and your boys.
You seemed to be taking my post in a different direction than what I experienced .... I appreciate your reply, it served as a reminder that my job is to be the best me I can be; and that the outreached comforting hand of al anon does not have all the answers, rather it offers comfort and hope and each of us decides when where and how we will allow that comfort and hope into our lives.