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HC2007 · HC2007

Just checkin in real quick, it was super long night , babysitting a A that has been up for days and seeing things and ghosts. Meth is going to be the distruction of this country.... drama drama and more drama... He will sleep probly till tomorrow and I will offer him the tools of recovery if he wants them, i...

lmt123 · lmt123

My Asober told me 2 days ago that his ex had called him complaining of how their daughter, who lives with them and will be 20 in Sept. (same age as my daughter that I just kicked out for not following our house rules and disrespecting me), is starting to act up and show the same behavior that my daughter was s...

Phil · Phil

But It Doesn't Act Like a Disease!One of the difficulties in recognizing alcoholism as a disease is it just plain doesn't seem like one. It doesn't look, sound, smell and it certainly doesn't act like a disease. To make matters worse, generally it denies it exists and resists treatment. Alcoholism h...

ally · ally

Guys, I was listening to a Whitney Houston Cd, and all of a sudden I realised the Lyrics of this song was something all us Alanons need to hear..... "They can't take away my Dignity, because the greatest love of all is happening to me".. I believe that children of our future Teach them well and...

Jamekaticy · Jamekaticy

Here's the logic of an A: I'm having a bad day because of the fallout from the things I did last night while drinking, so I'm not going to keep the appointment with the addictions specialist. He missed work, something he always prided himself on never doing, because he thought he'd called his boss to le...

snapdragon · snapdragon

http://www.activeboard.com/forum.spark?forumID=42727&p=3&topicID=11272138

serendipity · serendipity

Hey all, I am in the Bronx,NY visiting with some friends and I tried to look up local meetings but it didn't have any listed for Saturday. That can't be right! So, if anyone has a site that I can go to to get to a meeting tonight I would apperciate it. Or if anyone is near here and knows of a meeting let me kn...

maresie2 · maresie2

I recently found out that the A has a criminal issue in the works realting to his driving which as yo uall know is tremendously reckless. I 've recently been crafting a dream of getting me a place with the dogs and cats. That is a long long long way off but I can see the possibility these days in ways I never co...

Eve Eve Eve · Eve Eve Eve

I just wanted to say thank you for all the support I have recieved here, the tears that have been shed,and laughter that was shared. You were all my rock when I was just a piece of sand. I haven't been on much as my health has and seems to be deteriating fast lately. I am hoping to find a Dr. who can help me with p...

Maria123 · Maria123

August 5th Agenda I. OP SCHEDULE II. MINUTES APPROVAL FROM JULY 8TH. III. TREASURER'S REPORT IV. OLD BUSINESS A. Update on WSO Registration / Permission to use CAL B. FAQ's (Frequently Asked Questions) V. NEW BUS...

lil_pieces · lil_pieces

I'm new to this board. I just needed somewhere to go...talk...after last night. Needing to not feel alone. I don't even know where to start. Found out about a 2 weeks ago that I'm pregnant. I knew the husband was an alcoholic when I married him...but stupid me thought that this time things would be...

rtexas · rtexas

(((((((Everyone))))))) It has been very tough for me to hit the site for any extended period right now, but I am around and read in bits and pieces when I can. Wanted to drop a line and let you know you are all in my thoughts and prayers... even in my absence. It is rare these days that something new is not...

dollface · dollface

How do you draw the line between loving detachment and living separate lives? I am having an extremely hard time dealing with my Ah sobers lack of interest for things he used to enjoy. I understand that he needs to stay away from alcohol in order not to relapse; but I am not the one with the problem and I r...

Loupiness · Loupiness

I invited Ah(supuposedly sober) over to discuss our future. Our older two children are out of state, and our 2.5 yr old could not contain his excitement knowing his daddy was coming over. He will be leaving (a friend is taking him so we can talk), but it broke my heart to see this child run around with gl...

wheelie123 · wheelie123

Good Morning Alanon Family, I don't usually post on the message board but I spend a lot of time in the chatroom. I would like to ask for prayers on behalf of lilac1 she cannot get logged in. Her brother Paul was seriously injured in a fire and is now in intensive care in hospital. Thankyou Pam Helen if you ar...

Christy · Christy

Affirmations are a great way to run up the mountain instead of continuing to go around it and stay in the same holding pattern or stumble and fall back down. The challenge is to just try it and see what happens. Today: Tell yourself I am one with source energy (HP), I am a loving, kind and happy person....

lil_pieces · lil_pieces

so after our big fight which ended with him at the bar and two days of me getting up, going into the office, and coming home late, my AH said something to me about it all. I knew that he was probably confused, hurt, and a little angry that he hadn't seen me in two days, but I needed time away after the hurtful th...

BrandyCane · BrandyCane

Hi I am a new member. My story is long, but I will try and make it short and sweet. My husband is an A. He has been for the last 13 years that we have been together. We are in the middle of a remodel of our 35 year old home. Over the last few weeks he has been drinking more and more. It seems that he is drunk eve...

lonelygirl · lonelygirl

Hello everyone, I've been reading here for a few days and I just feel I need your friendship. I logged in as lonely girl, but I the ironic thing is that I don't think I've had a day to myself for at least 4 years. I have a long sad sob story just like everyone else. I feel so pathetic right now I don't even fe...

getoverit · getoverit

Hi 2 all, I love this a.m. topic, rather a reflection on today's reading o d a a time in alanon..* Shimo, u r so the bomb girl, I do not know what we'd do without u, u precious person.. *Aug 3rd, 07 Today has been a magical day, I think my silly keyboard ( or silly me.. ) changed to the other language it is set for...

HC2007 · HC2007

I know how to make it stop, but I dont like how to make it stop... Its not realy what I want, but I know it is what I should want.... talking in circles to myself my head is spinning.. 20 years with an A, from one substance to another, I long for the days it was alcohol, is that bizarre or what? I love him more then...

david62 · david62

At my weekly meeting after the meeting last nite I was talking with one of my alanut friends about relationships. All of us sitting at the table were divorced, two within the last 3 months. We were talking about the expression batted around here in al-anon sometimes (or in codependent literature) tha...

Kim65 · Kim65

The A ran into my son and his friend in town, and asked them to come cut wood with him to make a little cash. These 20 yr old boys were thrilled, as the A told them he could make $500 in a single day. They waited for him at his place until they got bored and drifted over to a new friend's home. In the meantime, t...

flower · flower

I am still confused, but really appreciate the meetings and support here. You all postede right away and helped me. Thank you. I guess I'm confused on how to help my family and self. Mainly I'm trying to be happy no matter what. I started smoking again which I'm not happy about but with all the stress a...

Leetle · Leetle

When I first arrived at alanon's door in crisis, I heard one day at a time, one minute or second at a time if you have to. It helped me to deal with my obssesive thinking, etc. To calm myself down and figure out what the next best thing was for me. Now, I feel like I have moved on to a different phase of the exa...

getoverit · getoverit

Hello 2 all, Golly, The readings today are so kind of an affirmation to doing the slogan work - its written out like an insurance policy, do the slogans and peace back to serenity is so (2000 ed). The slogan for 8.02.07 that is most enforced here in the reader is, to live and let live. Then the reading is fu...

ally · ally

((((((((((((((((((((((((Guys)))))))))))))))) Hello Again....(saw that in a movie, and wanted to say it)..lol Well, for three days, I have cried my eyes out over a lost love. I have been feeling, used, abused, worthless, useless, not good enough, comparing myself to other women, etc!!!(stinki...

david62 · david62

((((Family)))) Here I am on a rainy Saturday afternoon! I had plans today to do some things, which have not happened for one reason or another, the lastest being the continued deluge of my area by rain. Not complaining...too much... as we have been in a drought for the last couple of years and have had...

carolinagirl · carolinagirl

I found a great website I think someone here may have mentioned it before but I thought it was one I already saw. They had forms and step by step instructions on how to file in NC. And it was a lawyer's website of all things. All I need to be concerned with now is custody and I have a restraining order that'...

serendipity · serendipity

I just tried to send a PM and I sent it to myself (HP trying to tell me something?) Where it says recipient it says my name and then subject is empty. Any suggestions or do I really need to hear what I am saying LOL!

carolinagirl · carolinagirl

Sometimes here and there I find myself beating me up for sticking with this as long as I did. I have been with an A or addict or both for the past 14 years of my life. Here I am 36 with 3 kids, a single mom and no prospects and not even enough interest even if I found one. I get a lot of if only's. If only I would h...

Rita G · Rita G

I don't know if we have any MIP members that are in the Minneapolis area, but probably some will have friends or family members in the area. Just wanted to send out good thoughts & prayers for all those affected by this horrible accident. As a DOT (Dept of Transportation) employee, my co-workers we...

bev · bev

went to my mothers-in-laws yesterday to pick up the cell phone bills for the past 3 months{SAH is on my mother-in-law account.well to my surprise that woman he says he didnt do anything with{read earlier post from a few days ago}or really call there was her number on the cell bill starting in aril 7 to ma...

QOD · QOD

Hey Everyone - I don't know how many prayers went out for me yesterday but it worked!!! I called my credit card company this morning and they WERE able to CANCEL the balance transfer I made Monday Night. I am FREE of that debt now. AND I AM THE WISER FOR THE EXPERIENCE!!! Now I will have to do a follow up to...

QOD · QOD

Ok (Carolinagirl, you've already heard all this) - Here goes. I am SOOO STUPID!!! I had a collection agency call me last night. They said that my AH owed just under $8000 on a credit card amd that I was an "Authorized User" and therefore liable for it. I said I was not, that I had checked int...

ddub · ddub

New but understand the 3 C's (sigh of relief) and to get off his back/get on w/my life I never have talked about this with him, somehow it's like a silent rule that's not my business BUT his drinking is a big white elephant in our house the children know I have started attending AlAnon and they are talking...

firstin911 · firstin911

Hello everyone. new to this. I am just overwhelmed right now. I want to know if there is people that are willing to talk with me. my mom is a recovering alcoholic and my dad and brother go to al-anon. recently my dad has been talking to me and stating how he has fear for me and that the relationship that...

ally · ally

(((((((((((Guys))))))))))))) Ok, wait for it...lol Last night I decided to join a date line on the internet. Curious I guess. Well a guy sent me and e.mail, and we got talking. He lives only 30 miles away from me. We got on to msn. Today he sent me an Instant message, and we spoke for two hours. We talked ab...

Becky1 · Becky1

My daughter had her sonogram today, and I went with her and her husband...it was amazing! IT IS GOING TO BE A GIRL LOVE IN RECOVERY, BECKY1

Becky1 · Becky1

We had a good weekend together, AH and I. Went to a party, danced, laughed, kissed. Went out to eat with a friend Monday night. Tuesday night (last night) he was acting irritable when I got home, so I mowed a little, then went to Walmart. Got home, he was still acting like a jerk. Started grouching abou...

bobump · bobump

Here at the NJ Alnon Convention. Leave me a msg if your in town, would be great to put a face w/ the name. You can also leave msg for room 1010. :) Wife and son are with me. Bob

twinmom2 · twinmom2

(((Friends))) Thanks to all for the prayers for "D". HP works in ways that only he knows what is best for us. Our friend got worse last night but did not call us until this morning. I could tell immediately while talking with him he was not in his right mind. So, AH and I decided we needed to i...

debilyn · debilyn

A few days ago my son needed his father, my A, to sign off on some papers. My son is buying my other house he grew up in. So the A actually agreed to go do it with Mac. Mac went to pick him up and the A would not get into the car with Mac. He has a nice car, is an honorable man. A was paranoid. (A knows Mac was going to do...

NANUKE · NANUKE

Hi Family, As a follow-up to the in-law situation (I'm Nobody's Convenience which I posted a few days ago) I informed them (nephew and this aunt) that I was turning over the aunt's banking, medication and general care to her nephew. I suggested we meet at the bank today at which time, I turned over a bla...

carolinagirl · carolinagirl

I have decided it's time, I hope that moving to a different county this month won't affect my ability to file. I don't really have the money but I SO want to be done!!! Hey QOD...can I borrow a grand to pay for a lawyer? LOL... Really I am going to have to file on my own and have no idea what I'm doing and ther...

kissers · kissers

Hi everyone, A new woman started at my office. She seemed really nice. She asked me to go to lunch, we went to a local spot. She kept talking incessantly. I would say something and there was no response. She would immediately pick up and keep talking again incessantly. I thought that it was because she wa...

Friendofyours · Friendofyours

Just for today, name three things that YOU are grateful for. 1)I am grateful my entire family has their health 2)I am grateful we have food to eat and lots of it. 3)I am grateful for reality TV to let me know that I am not crazy ;)

Loupiness · Loupiness

In earlier posts I wrote how my AHsober asked if his A affair could be at our Open House for our business. Well, it didn't happen, but the whole experience really was what I needed to push me toward resolution. I saw how distorted his thinking really is, and how little he thinks of me. Then yesterday we spo...

jaja · jaja

In the corner Of my eye I saw you in rudys You were very high You were high It was a cryin disgrace They saw your face On the counter By your keys Was a book of numbers And your remedies One of these Surely will screen out the sorrow But where are you tomorrow I cant cry anymore While you run around Break away Jus...

sisdragonfly1957 · sisdragonfly1957

I just don't know how or why I'm feeling like this. axbf is out of town on vaction, things with the truck are in his hands.I'm staying out of it. He called to let me know he had gotten there, haven't heard from him since, thought maybe he would call . He gets back tomarrow and I find the closer he gets to coming...

carolinagirl · carolinagirl

Have you ever noticed how when you're doing the right thing everything seems to just magically fall into place? I had the garage sale last weekend (I'm still suffering from carrying all that heavy stuff out) and I sold almost all the big items that I wasn't going to take anyway. I swear! I would say I wi...

Heather72 · Heather72

My AHsober (30 days) is about to drive me crazy. He has been cycling from being "OK" to being very angry and loud. Last night, I went to an AA Speaker meeting with him. He invited me to go. It was OK. I could relate to some of what the speaker was sharing, other parts I could not. My AH seemed fine d...

Jamekaticy · Jamekaticy

My A's dad died a little over a week ago. It was a complicated relationship, but he still loved him a lot. Both were diabetic, and his dad was also an alcoholic who would stop drinking for a year or two at a time, then start up again. Worked like a fiend through it all, though, and was in tremendous shape wh...

cursed · cursed

Hello, I am 47 and I have just had enough of my parents bull****.... I live with the scare of their alcoholism everyday .. I cannot look at them anymore because they still will not take responsibility for what they have done ... i guess I am here to get some of this out of me and hopefully a miricle will ha...

barisax · barisax

I used to be a semi-regular at a Sunday night meeting, but since I have gotten involved in a relationship and she wants to go to Alanon too, I let her have that time slot. I don't feel we should *regularly* go to the same meetings, and especially since she was new to Alanon, I didn't want her to be uncomfort...

Rita G · Rita G

The theme for the convention this weekend was "Recipe for Recovery". Being in Lafayette, Louisiana, they had the room decorated with cooking things, fun stuff cause we are definitely known for our food, especially around Lafayette. At the registration table there were cards with thi...

gardengal · gardengal

Oh man for me its plenty. One big one is wondering what people are up to , especially my A. Being nosey wanting to know all the details, good or bad. I would sincerely like to let go of other's business, and live my own life, however I still want to know , "period"! Why ? Dont know? Another huge on...

Tiger2006 · Tiger2006

OMG it was a long drive I went to an al anon meeting. I was feeling so guilty! It was like I was "little Sarah" and I was being a "bad girl" all over again. I felt this compulsion to tell my parents "I'm going for a job interview with the Americorps in Indy. I'm really excited....

seekingserenity · seekingserenity

I just burst into tears over missing my mom. The thing is, what I'm missing isn't the relationship I really have with my mom. I guess I am grieving over my childhood, over the love that my mom never showed me. My mom's attitude toward me and her on again off again very ugly relationship with my alcoholic fa...

bev · bev

hi all,been awhile since i posted..as you all know i left my SAH in jan went to live back up north in ny..came back here in march to take care of the house,and things,and had a long talk to SAH{who was in treatment in gainesville fl but moved in with a long term AAER THE BEGINNING OF APRIL}decided at that tim...

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	Day 6 and its over ...for now (Preview) Just checkin in real quick, it was super long night , babysitting a A that has been up for days and seeing things and ghosts. Meth is going to be the distruction of this country.... drama drama and more drama... He will sleep probly till tomorrow and I will offer him the tools of recovery if he wants them, i...	HC2007	5	563	Aug 4, 2007 by wp
	no more kids! (Preview) My Asober told me 2 days ago that his ex had called him complaining of how their daughter, who lives with them and will be 20 in Sept. (same age as my daughter that I just kicked out for not following our house rules and disrespecting me), is starting to act up and show the same behavior that my daughter was s...	lmt123	2	463	Aug 4, 2007 by wp
	Sharing...Alcoholism As A Disease (Preview) But It Doesn't Act Like a Disease!One of the difficulties in recognizing alcoholism as a disease is it just plain doesn't seem like one. It doesn't look, sound, smell and it certainly doesn't act like a disease. To make matters worse, generally it denies it exists and resists treatment. Alcoholism h...	Phil	9	598	Aug 4, 2007 by Lanchas
	JUST A THOUGHT.... (Preview) Guys, I was listening to a Whitney Houston Cd, and all of a sudden I realised the Lyrics of this song was something all us Alanons need to hear..... "They can't take away my Dignity, because the greatest love of all is happening to me".. I believe that children of our future Teach them well and...	ally	3	458	Aug 4, 2007 by Friendofyours
	I knew I shouldn't have hoped (Preview) Here's the logic of an A: I'm having a bad day because of the fallout from the things I did last night while drinking, so I'm not going to keep the appointment with the addictions specialist. He missed work, something he always prided himself on never doing, because he thought he'd called his boss to le...	Jamekaticy	1	473	Aug 4, 2007 by Friendofyours
	Continuing Cycle (Preview) http://www.activeboard.com/forum.spark?forumID=42727&p=3&topicID=11272138	snapdragon	6	676	Aug 4, 2007 by cleothe2
	meetings in the bronx (Preview) Hey all, I am in the Bronx,NY visiting with some friends and I tried to look up local meetings but it didn't have any listed for Saturday. That can't be right! So, if anyone has a site that I can go to to get to a meeting tonight I would apperciate it. Or if anyone is near here and knows of a meeting let me kn...	serendipity	1	6947	Aug 4, 2007 by ally
	dreaming (Preview) I recently found out that the A has a criminal issue in the works realting to his driving which as yo uall know is tremendously reckless. I 've recently been crafting a dream of getting me a place with the dogs and cats. That is a long long long way off but I can see the possibility these days in ways I never co...	maresie2	5	497	Aug 4, 2007 by serendipity
	Eve (Preview) I just wanted to say thank you for all the support I have recieved here, the tears that have been shed,and laughter that was shared. You were all my rock when I was just a piece of sand. I haven't been on much as my health has and seems to be deteriating fast lately. I am hoping to find a Dr. who can help me with p...	Eve Eve Eve	2	277	Aug 4, 2007 by belle1
	Sunday, August 5th Agenda, 9:00 PM Eastern Standard Time (Preview) August 5th Agenda I. OP SCHEDULE II. MINUTES APPROVAL FROM JULY 8TH. III. TREASURER'S REPORT IV. OLD BUSINESS A. Update on WSO Registration / Permission to use CAL B. FAQ's (Frequently Asked Questions) V. NEW BUS...	Maria123	2	316	Aug 4, 2007 by weggie
	NEW Just needed to talk (Preview) I'm new to this board. I just needed somewhere to go...talk...after last night. Needing to not feel alone. I don't even know where to start. Found out about a 2 weeks ago that I'm pregnant. I knew the husband was an alcoholic when I married him...but stupid me thought that this time things would be...	lil_pieces	10	534	Aug 4, 2007 by Jamekaticy
	Still here... still amazed (Preview) (((((((Everyone))))))) It has been very tough for me to hit the site for any extended period right now, but I am around and read in bits and pieces when I can. Wanted to drop a line and let you know you are all in my thoughts and prayers... even in my absence. It is rare these days that something new is not...	rtexas	10	690	Aug 4, 2007 by Karilynn
	How do I draw the line? (Preview) How do you draw the line between loving detachment and living separate lives? I am having an extremely hard time dealing with my Ah sobers lack of interest for things he used to enjoy. I understand that he needs to stay away from alcohol in order not to relapse; but I am not the one with the problem and I r...	dollface	9	880	Aug 4, 2007 by Jamekaticy
	Give Me Strength! (Preview) I invited Ah(supuposedly sober) over to discuss our future. Our older two children are out of state, and our 2.5 yr old could not contain his excitement knowing his daddy was coming over. He will be leaving (a friend is taking him so we can talk), but it broke my heart to see this child run around with gl...	Loupiness	5	321	Aug 4, 2007 by Jamekaticy
	Prayer Request (Preview) Good Morning Alanon Family, I don't usually post on the message board but I spend a lot of time in the chatroom. I would like to ask for prayers on behalf of lilac1 she cannot get logged in. Her brother Paul was seriously injured in a fire and is now in intensive care in hospital. Thankyou Pam Helen if you ar...	wheelie123	12	610	Aug 4, 2007 by wp
	Affirmations, I DBL Dawg Dare!!!!! (Preview) Affirmations are a great way to run up the mountain instead of continuing to go around it and stay in the same holding pattern or stumble and fall back down. The challenge is to just try it and see what happens. Today: Tell yourself I am one with source energy (HP), I am a loving, kind and happy person....	Christy	10	577	Aug 4, 2007 by bobump
	Can be so hard to remain calm (Preview) so after our big fight which ended with him at the bar and two days of me getting up, going into the office, and coming home late, my AH said something to me about it all. I knew that he was probably confused, hurt, and a little angry that he hadn't seen me in two days, but I needed time away after the hurtful th...	lil_pieces	3	451	Aug 3, 2007 by Friendofyours
	Desperate! (Preview) Hi I am a new member. My story is long, but I will try and make it short and sweet. My husband is an A. He has been for the last 13 years that we have been together. We are in the middle of a remodel of our 35 year old home. Over the last few weeks he has been drinking more and more. It seems that he is drunk eve...	BrandyCane	2	431	Aug 3, 2007 by rtexas
	another newbie (Preview) Hello everyone, I've been reading here for a few days and I just feel I need your friendship. I logged in as lonely girl, but I the ironic thing is that I don't think I've had a day to myself for at least 4 years. I have a long sad sob story just like everyone else. I feel so pathetic right now I don't even fe...	lonelygirl	10	395	Aug 3, 2007 by lil_pieces
	Today's a.m. topic (Preview) Hi 2 all, I love this a.m. topic, rather a reflection on today's reading o d a a time in alanon..* Shimo, u r so the bomb girl, I do not know what we'd do without u, u precious person.. *Aug 3rd, 07 Today has been a magical day, I think my silly keyboard ( or silly me.. ) changed to the other language it is set for...	getoverit	0	241	Aug 3, 2007 by getoverit
	I want off this ride... (Preview) I know how to make it stop, but I dont like how to make it stop... Its not realy what I want, but I know it is what I should want.... talking in circles to myself my head is spinning.. 20 years with an A, from one substance to another, I long for the days it was alcohol, is that bizarre or what? I love him more then...	HC2007	11	611	Aug 3, 2007 by HC2007
	Are Our Pickers Broken??? (Preview) At my weekly meeting after the meeting last nite I was talking with one of my alanut friends about relationships. All of us sitting at the table were divorced, two within the last 3 months. We were talking about the expression batted around here in al-anon sometimes (or in codependent literature) tha...	david62	12	720	Aug 3, 2007 by kismetstrand
	What a jerk . . . (Preview) The A ran into my son and his friend in town, and asked them to come cut wood with him to make a little cash. These 20 yr old boys were thrilled, as the A told them he could make $500 in a single day. They waited for him at his place until they got bored and drifted over to a new friend's home. In the meantime, t...	Kim65	5	2104	Aug 3, 2007 by Kim65
	confused (Preview) I am still confused, but really appreciate the meetings and support here. You all postede right away and helped me. Thank you. I guess I'm confused on how to help my family and self. Mainly I'm trying to be happy no matter what. I started smoking again which I'm not happy about but with all the stress a...	flower	4	349	Aug 3, 2007 by Tiger2006
	Taking care of myself every moment (Preview) When I first arrived at alanon's door in crisis, I heard one day at a time, one minute or second at a time if you have to. It helped me to deal with my obssesive thinking, etc. To calm myself down and figure out what the next best thing was for me. Now, I feel like I have moved on to a different phase of the exa...	Leetle	2	470	Aug 3, 2007 by Jerry F
	eight, the second zero seven readings o d a a t alanon (Preview) Hello 2 all, Golly, The readings today are so kind of an affirmation to doing the slogan work - its written out like an insurance policy, do the slogans and peace back to serenity is so (2000 ed). The slogan for 8.02.07 that is most enforced here in the reader is, to live and let live. Then the reading is fu...	getoverit	1	508	Aug 3, 2007 by aunitedway
	PICKING UP THE TOOLS OF AL-ANON (Preview) ((((((((((((((((((((((((Guys)))))))))))))))) Hello Again....(saw that in a movie, and wanted to say it)..lol Well, for three days, I have cried my eyes out over a lost love. I have been feeling, used, abused, worthless, useless, not good enough, comparing myself to other women, etc!!!(stinki...	ally	4	494	Aug 3, 2007 by Barbs45
	The Good Ship "Al-Anon" (Preview) ((((Family)))) Here I am on a rainy Saturday afternoon! I had plans today to do some things, which have not happened for one reason or another, the lastest being the continued deluge of my area by rain. Not complaining...too much... as we have been in a drought for the last couple of years and have had...	david62	12	1013	Aug 3, 2007 by bobump
	I found the forms and directions (Preview) I found a great website I think someone here may have mentioned it before but I thought it was one I already saw. They had forms and step by step instructions on how to file in NC. And it was a lawyer's website of all things. All I need to be concerned with now is custody and I have a restraining order that'...	carolinagirl	6	417	Aug 2, 2007 by maresie2
	private messaging mix up (Preview) I just tried to send a PM and I sent it to myself (HP trying to tell me something?) Where it says recipient it says my name and then subject is empty. Any suggestions or do I really need to hear what I am saying LOL!	serendipity	2	340	Aug 2, 2007 by tea2
	Life's too short. (Preview) Sometimes here and there I find myself beating me up for sticking with this as long as I did. I have been with an A or addict or both for the past 14 years of my life. Here I am 36 with 3 kids, a single mom and no prospects and not even enough interest even if I found one. I get a lot of if only's. If only I would h...	carolinagirl	9	550	Aug 2, 2007 by NANUKE
	Prayers for all those in Minneapolis (Preview) I don't know if we have any MIP members that are in the Minneapolis area, but probably some will have friends or family members in the area. Just wanted to send out good thoughts & prayers for all those affected by this horrible accident. As a DOT (Dept of Transportation) employee, my co-workers we...	Rita G	3	2589	Aug 2, 2007 by ally
	what a bad nite (Preview) went to my mothers-in-laws yesterday to pick up the cell phone bills for the past 3 months{SAH is on my mother-in-law account.well to my surprise that woman he says he didnt do anything with{read earlier post from a few days ago}or really call there was her number on the cell bill starting in aril 7 to ma...	bev	5	462	Aug 2, 2007 by bev
	UPDATE: Great News Everyone!!! (Preview) Hey Everyone - I don't know how many prayers went out for me yesterday but it worked!!! I called my credit card company this morning and they WERE able to CANCEL the balance transfer I made Monday Night. I am FREE of that debt now. AND I AM THE WISER FOR THE EXPERIENCE!!! Now I will have to do a follow up to...	QOD	8	450	Aug 2, 2007 by Karilynn
	Boy am I STUPID!!! (Preview) Ok (Carolinagirl, you've already heard all this) - Here goes. I am SOOO STUPID!!! I had a collection agency call me last night. They said that my AH owed just under $8000 on a credit card amd that I was an "Authorized User" and therefore liable for it. I said I was not, that I had checked int...	QOD	16	598	Aug 2, 2007 by mhgal
	acknowledge the white elephant? (Preview) New but understand the 3 C's (sigh of relief) and to get off his back/get on w/my life I never have talked about this with him, somehow it's like a silent rule that's not my business BUT his drinking is a big white elephant in our house the children know I have started attending AlAnon and they are talking...	ddub	5	695	Aug 2, 2007 by thinkstoomuch
	I would like some help (Preview) Hello everyone. new to this. I am just overwhelmed right now. I want to know if there is people that are willing to talk with me. my mom is a recovering alcoholic and my dad and brother go to al-anon. recently my dad has been talking to me and stating how he has fear for me and that the relationship that...	firstin911	5	674	Aug 2, 2007 by Tiger2006
	IS THIS A NORMAL THING TO DO???? (Preview) (((((((((((Guys))))))))))))) Ok, wait for it...lol Last night I decided to join a date line on the internet. Curious I guess. Well a guy sent me and e.mail, and we got talking. He lives only 30 miles away from me. We got on to msn. Today he sent me an Instant message, and we spoke for two hours. We talked ab...	ally	9	546	Aug 2, 2007 by mhgal
	It's gonna Be A .......... (Preview) My daughter had her sonogram today, and I went with her and her husband...it was amazing! IT IS GOING TO BE A GIRL LOVE IN RECOVERY, BECKY1	Becky1	10	472	Aug 2, 2007 by Rita G
	Wedding Ring Cut In Two (Preview) We had a good weekend together, AH and I. Went to a party, danced, laughed, kissed. Went out to eat with a friend Monday night. Tuesday night (last night) he was acting irritable when I got home, so I mowed a little, then went to Walmart. Got home, he was still acting like a jerk. Started grouching abou...	Becky1	12	621	Aug 2, 2007 by Karilynn
	Greetings from Jal-Con ! ! (Preview) Here at the NJ Alnon Convention. Leave me a msg if your in town, would be great to put a face w/ the name. You can also leave msg for room 1010. :) Wife and son are with me. Bob	bobump	8	572	Aug 2, 2007 by bobump
	Update on my friend (Preview) (((Friends))) Thanks to all for the prayers for "D". HP works in ways that only he knows what is best for us. Our friend got worse last night but did not call us until this morning. I could tell immediately while talking with him he was not in his right mind. So, AH and I decided we needed to i...	twinmom2	5	468	Aug 1, 2007 by maresie2
	It is hard to wrap my mind around this (Preview) A few days ago my son needed his father, my A, to sign off on some papers. My son is buying my other house he grew up in. So the A actually agreed to go do it with Mac. Mac went to pick him up and the A would not get into the car with Mac. He has a nice car, is an honorable man. A was paranoid. (A knows Mac was going to do...	debilyn	10	613	Aug 1, 2007 by Alanoner
	Shifting into Recovery Mode, Thank you God!! (Preview) Hi Family, As a follow-up to the in-law situation (I'm Nobody's Convenience which I posted a few days ago) I informed them (nephew and this aunt) that I was turning over the aunt's banking, medication and general care to her nephew. I suggested we meet at the bank today at which time, I turned over a bla...	NANUKE	4	482	Aug 1, 2007 by mhgal
	It's time to file for divorce (Preview) I have decided it's time, I hope that moving to a different county this month won't affect my ability to file. I don't really have the money but I SO want to be done!!! Hey QOD...can I borrow a grand to pay for a lawyer? LOL... Really I am going to have to file on my own and have no idea what I'm doing and ther...	carolinagirl	3	477	Aug 1, 2007 by SLS
	Awareness (Preview) Hi everyone, A new woman started at my office. She seemed really nice. She asked me to go to lunch, we went to a local spot. She kept talking incessantly. I would say something and there was no response. She would immediately pick up and keep talking again incessantly. I thought that it was because she wa...	kissers	3	269	Aug 1, 2007 by maire rua
	What are you Thankful for today? (Preview) Just for today, name three things that YOU are grateful for. 1)I am grateful my entire family has their health 2)I am grateful we have food to eat and lots of it. 3)I am grateful for reality TV to let me know that I am not crazy ;)	Friendofyours	13	376	Aug 1, 2007 by twinmom2
	If it's the right thing, why do I feel so lousy? (Preview) In earlier posts I wrote how my AHsober asked if his A affair could be at our Open House for our business. Well, it didn't happen, but the whole experience really was what I needed to push me toward resolution. I saw how distorted his thinking really is, and how little he thinks of me. Then yesterday we spo...	Loupiness	8	722	Aug 1, 2007 by carolinagirl
	"Drink Your Big Black Cow" (Preview) In the corner Of my eye I saw you in rudys You were very high You were high It was a cryin disgrace They saw your face On the counter By your keys Was a book of numbers And your remedies One of these Surely will screen out the sorrow But where are you tomorrow I cant cry anymore While you run around Break away Jus...	jaja	4	3700	Jul 31, 2007 by barisax
	Feeling out of sorts???? (Preview) I just don't know how or why I'm feeling like this. axbf is out of town on vaction, things with the truck are in his hands.I'm staying out of it. He called to let me know he had gotten there, haven't heard from him since, thought maybe he would call . He gets back tomarrow and I find the closer he gets to coming...	sisdragonfly1957	4	432	Jul 31, 2007 by Friendofyours
	More Miracles... (Preview) Have you ever noticed how when you're doing the right thing everything seems to just magically fall into place? I had the garage sale last weekend (I'm still suffering from carrying all that heavy stuff out) and I sold almost all the big items that I wasn't going to take anyway. I swear! I would say I wi...	carolinagirl	5	330	Jul 31, 2007 by weggie
	At the end of my rope this morning (Preview) My AHsober (30 days) is about to drive me crazy. He has been cycling from being "OK" to being very angry and loud. Last night, I went to an AA Speaker meeting with him. He invited me to go. It was OK. I could relate to some of what the speaker was sharing, other parts I could not. My AH seemed fine d...	Heather72	10	638	Jul 31, 2007 by weggie
	Can't hope too much (Preview) My A's dad died a little over a week ago. It was a complicated relationship, but he still loved him a lot. Both were diabetic, and his dad was also an alcoholic who would stop drinking for a year or two at a time, then start up again. Worked like a fiend through it all, though, and was in tremendous shape wh...	Jamekaticy	3	371	Jul 31, 2007 by Kim65
	how can ya forgive but not forget (Preview) Hello, I am 47 and I have just had enough of my parents bull****.... I live with the scare of their alcoholism everyday .. I cannot look at them anymore because they still will not take responsibility for what they have done ... i guess I am here to get some of this out of me and hopefully a miricle will ha...	cursed	14	830	Jul 31, 2007 by carolinagirl
	Shopping for a Home Group (Preview) I used to be a semi-regular at a Sunday night meeting, but since I have gotten involved in a relationship and she wants to go to Alanon too, I let her have that time slot. I don't feel we should regularly go to the same meetings, and especially since she was new to Alanon, I didn't want her to be uncomfort...	barisax	3	450	Jul 31, 2007 by carolinagirl
	Recipe for Recovery (Preview) The theme for the convention this weekend was "Recipe for Recovery". Being in Lafayette, Louisiana, they had the room decorated with cooking things, fun stuff cause we are definitely known for our food, especially around Lafayette. At the registration table there were cards with thi...	Rita G	1	400	Jul 31, 2007 by Karilynn
	What behavioral habits can you improve? (Preview) Oh man for me its plenty. One big one is wondering what people are up to , especially my A. Being nosey wanting to know all the details, good or bad. I would sincerely like to let go of other's business, and live my own life, however I still want to know , "period"! Why ? Dont know? Another huge on...	gardengal	12	656	Jul 30, 2007 by Diva
	Update on Indy interview (Preview) OMG it was a long drive I went to an al anon meeting. I was feeling so guilty! It was like I was "little Sarah" and I was being a "bad girl" all over again. I felt this compulsion to tell my parents "I'm going for a job interview with the Americorps in Indy. I'm really excited....	Tiger2006	4	590	Jul 30, 2007 by wp
	How can you miss something you never had?? (Preview) I just burst into tears over missing my mom. The thing is, what I'm missing isn't the relationship I really have with my mom. I guess I am grieving over my childhood, over the love that my mom never showed me. My mom's attitude toward me and her on again off again very ugly relationship with my alcoholic fa...	seekingserenity	3	503	Jul 30, 2007 by shimo
	just need some feed back (Preview) hi all,been awhile since i posted..as you all know i left my SAH in jan went to live back up north in ny..came back here in march to take care of the house,and things,and had a long talk to SAH{who was in treatment in gainesville fl but moved in with a long term AAER THE BEGINNING OF APRIL}decided at that tim...	bev	5	1924	Jul 30, 2007 by mhgal
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