...this phrase might be heard in ALanon in response to a principle, slogan, or spiritual solution. Behind it is often a belief that our particular situation is different, not so simple. It couldn't possibly be eased, or certainly not solved by something so simple as a slogan or concept. 

Reminder - If I'm tempted to Yes but, I will pause and listen instead. If I want changes in my life, I will try out the Alanon suggestion. 

"I will not resist the impact of a new idea. It may be just the one I've needed without being aware of it. I will make my mind more flexible and receptive to new points of view." -Unattributed
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I can tell when I am walking back my Step 3, it's when I find myself making exceptions for my situation and why I can bypass the suggestions of the Program...Yes it says that, but this is different because...

Possibly, but most likely it's not. I'm here because I tried my way, thinking, and solutions and I admitted that they didn't work. I came to believe that something greater could orient me toward sanity. I need to let it...

Grateful for the reminders  

Enigmatic, thank you for your service, reading and ESH today.

Yes, but .... and the what ifs only lead more toward the chaos and insanity for sure!!