We got in the mail yesterday for the start of the new insurance year our HRA Debit Cards
that needed to be validated with a phone call. The telephone prompts would not allow the
cards to be activated after entering the numbers but on the reverse side of the letter insert
it recommended to call an insurance representative for assistance, which I did for my card.
My 'A', while I was on the phone started to yell at me calling me over controlling and the
representative heard/witnessed what he was saying and quite frankly was appalled, she
said she was dealing with the same thing for the past 4 years and sent me her blessings.
When I finished that awkward phone call he proceeded to remind me that I could leave
anytime I wanted and I reminded him that if I were to leave it would be when I could
afford an attorney and he would just be served. So I am back to keeping to myself
which is in safe/quite mode and just needed to talk about it because I when I open up
during these times it helps me to move on. {{HUGS}}
Lyne said
Jul 2, 2023
{{{Debbie}}}. I can relate to your experience of having this person you love, and work very hard to detach with love and have compassion for, act in a way that is so unnecessary, so angry, and embarrassing. My day yesterday was similar due to the fact the my A's rental car needed to be returned 7/1, and the car wasn't repaired until 2:30. It's as though my A has no breaks and can't stop at the stop sign. And that leaves me possibly being trapped in an accident that could have so easily been avoided. Does that make sense? Regardless of my situation, I'm sending you love, light, and prayers, for a peaceful day with a side of serenity.
DM2021 said
Jul 2, 2023
Thank you {{Lyne}} for your response and best wishes/prayers.
We got in the mail yesterday for the start of the new insurance year our HRA Debit Cards
that needed to be validated with a phone call. The telephone prompts would not allow the
cards to be activated after entering the numbers but on the reverse side of the letter insert
it recommended to call an insurance representative for assistance, which I did for my card.
My 'A', while I was on the phone started to yell at me calling me over controlling and the
representative heard/witnessed what he was saying and quite frankly was appalled, she
said she was dealing with the same thing for the past 4 years and sent me her blessings.
When I finished that awkward phone call he proceeded to remind me that I could leave
anytime I wanted and I reminded him that if I were to leave it would be when I could
afford an attorney and he would just be served. So I am back to keeping to myself
which is in safe/quite mode and just needed to talk about it because I when I open up
during these times it helps me to move on. {{HUGS}}
Thank you {{Lyne}} for your response and best wishes/prayers.