Todays reading is about how we might seek answers, changes, self worth, from people and/or situations outside of ourselves. The writer describes coming to al-anon looking for answers. The writer looked to parents, friends, partners etc: looking everywhere except Higher Power and self. After some time in program, the writer realizes there was some self sabotage in looking on the outside for all of the answers which were within. Some of the tools the program provided: not forcing our own will- we mature. Making amends- we develop our self esteem.
This reading reminds me of one of the first meetings I went to in person. One of the people who spoke told some horrific situations of living with an alcoholic spouse. What struck me was- this person did not sound angry, defeated or resentful. She was strong, funny and seemed- content! I remember thinking, I want to be around this person and others who have gained strength and support from each other while working on their own selves. Each of us needs to do our own work, and then it is very helpful to share with one another.
The quotation from Al-Anon Sharings from Adult Children (p.6): With help we can develop a new sense of living, as we become, one day at a time, the people we want to be.
I hope everyone enjoys a peaceful Sunday:)
Mary
DM2021 said
Aug 22, 2021
Thank you so much Mary for your service, today's reading and your ESH.
I have to say that I am so comfortable with myself (for the most part) since working the Al-Anon program.
I have learned to take care of me, because I now know that I not only am not alone, but that the disruption/chaos
is well within my perspective and when I use the Al-Anon tools there is that, "strength and support" and guidance
from my HP that eases and explains how "One-Day-At-A-Time" and "Letting Go and Letting God" is key to my
peace and serenity. Grateful member!!
Dealing with tropical storm Henri, right now winds are not bad, but we were already soggy, so 6 more inches of
rain should prove to be interesting. Wishing the MIP family a good Sunday!!
yanksfan51 said
Aug 22, 2021
Stay safe! Henri is coming to visit us too- I hope he understands but he is not welcome at this time ;)
Good morning Everyone:
Todays reading is about how we might seek answers, changes, self worth, from people and/or situations outside of ourselves. The writer describes coming to al-anon looking for answers. The writer looked to parents, friends, partners etc: looking everywhere except Higher Power and self. After some time in program, the writer realizes there was some self sabotage in looking on the outside for all of the answers which were within. Some of the tools the program provided: not forcing our own will- we mature. Making amends- we develop our self esteem.
This reading reminds me of one of the first meetings I went to in person. One of the people who spoke told some horrific situations of living with an alcoholic spouse. What struck me was- this person did not sound angry, defeated or resentful. She was strong, funny and seemed- content! I remember thinking, I want to be around this person and others who have gained strength and support from each other while working on their own selves. Each of us needs to do our own work, and then it is very helpful to share with one another.
The quotation from Al-Anon Sharings from Adult Children (p.6): With help we can develop a new sense of living, as we become, one day at a time, the people we want to be.
I hope everyone enjoys a peaceful Sunday:)
Mary
I have to say that I am so comfortable with myself (for the most part) since working the Al-Anon program.
I have learned to take care of me, because I now know that I not only am not alone, but that the disruption/chaos
is well within my perspective and when I use the Al-Anon tools there is that, "strength and support" and guidance
from my HP that eases and explains how "One-Day-At-A-Time" and "Letting Go and Letting God" is key to my
peace and serenity. Grateful member!!
Dealing with tropical storm Henri, right now winds are not bad, but we were already soggy, so 6 more inches of
rain should prove to be interesting. Wishing the MIP family a good Sunday!!
Stay safe! Henri is coming to visit us too- I hope he understands but he is not welcome at this time ;)