If you could offer a prayer it would be appreciated. My SO is in surgery. I'm here alone waiting.I rushed him to the ER last night. They told us mo bed for him, transferred him in midst of health difficulties. His kids stepped up to help to get me to a hospital far from home and for that Im grateful. They didn't stick around at the hospital with me while their dad is operated on. They said Good luck, Dad and left. I feel unusually calm. This has little to do with serenity and more to do with not sleeping for almost a day and a half. I'd cry but I just don't have the energy.I saw the hurt when his kids chose to leave. We were accepting.i wish they had waited until after he was taken in before leaving. The kid that I rode with was trying to convince me to be the one responsible for health decisions if their father was unable to speak for himself. I pointed out that he was able to advocate for himself and ended the discussion by saying their father and I had not had this discussion. They pressed on with this by offering to create the document and language. I practiced detachment by being silent. Did I mention no health insurance? The other hospital transferred my SO to a world renowned teaching hospital. It's undetermined if he'll be admitted but they had me wait in the room he'd be assigned. It's not a room, it's a massive suite. I left it to care for myself, to eat something finally, to it sit out in the sun to breathe freely. I wish we could afford this.
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SunnyFrogs said
Jun 18, 2021
Oh no!
Prayers being sent your way.
Hugs
Debb said
Jun 18, 2021
{{Tiredtonite}}, I am so sorry you are going through this!!
You are and your family are in my prayers, for sure!!
Let us know how you are doing or if you just want to chat, I am here for you!
Daffodils said
Jun 18, 2021
Sending prayers. I pray God will protect you and your SO. You have our love and support. (((HUGS))
Freetime said
Jun 18, 2021
My thoughts are with you
DavidG said
Jun 18, 2021
(((((((((((((((((((((( T-T )))))))))))))))))))
JerryF said
Jun 18, 2021
(((TT))) you and he are not alone...The Father is with you and cares.
Daffodils said
Jun 19, 2021
Good Morning TT. I am glad you and your loved one pulled through. (((((HUGS))). May your day be filled with God's blessings.
Debb said
Jun 19, 2021
So happy {{TT}} that everything is going well for SO and you!!!
PosiesandPuppies said
Jun 19, 2021
So happy to hear that your SO has pulled through, and you are feeling supported. Still sending good vibes for continued strength!
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Lyne said
Jun 20, 2021
{{{Tired Tonight}}}. Please give us an update when you can. Love, light, and prayers being sent. Lyne
mamalioness said
Jul 8, 2021
(((((((((TT)))))))))) Don't know how I missed this post...So sorry....TONS of healing/love/peace energy coming your way and to SO and may the healing continue...............
Maresie888 said
Jul 9, 2021
Glad to hear this is a lot better
Maresie
Daffodils said
Jul 9, 2021
((( tiredtonite))) glad to hear that you are experiencing better days.
mamalioness said
Jul 9, 2021
Hey TT, grateful that things are moving forward. Keep us posted OK? And I am glad that you are here and taking good care of yourself
a4l said
Jul 10, 2021
I'm sorry I missed this TT. Hope you managed to get that sleep and continuing well wishes your way for the recovery period.
Lyne said
Jul 10, 2021
I'm so happy to hear things are going in a positive direction. Wishing you and your family a smooth recovery process. :)
Prayers being sent your way.
Hugs
You are and your family are in my prayers, for sure!!
Let us know how you are doing or if you just want to chat, I am here for you!
My thoughts are with you
(((((((((((((((((((((( T-T )))))))))))))))))))
(((TT))) you and he are not alone...The Father is with you and cares.
Glad to hear this is a lot better
Maresie