I am on a roller coaster right now. It is even affecting my sleep! My ah is acting out. I guess it is all about him. He us a recovering alcoholic but he is mean then nice. He is not facing something that is making him accusatory & flat out bullying me. I am trying not to react but it is hard. He is pushing me & said I should admit myself to a mental facility like I have dine before. If you pray please pray for him. Our 20th anniversary is on the 17th. I will be prepared today!
Temple said
Jul 13, 2019
Bless your heart, Kathleen.
Take care of yourself.
Prayers for you and for him.
Temple
El said
Jul 13, 2019
Praying for both of you, Kathleen. This is not an easy road!
Lyne said
Jul 14, 2019
Hoot Nanny-I live with mean than nice. Yes it is a roller coaster . I understand. I live with a dry drunk who is not getting alcohol treatment. I realize this past week that when I am expecting positive change I get angry and frustrated. When I am bullied I speak up. Im not accepting that behavior. I need to focus on me, stay with my tools all day, every day, and continue to fix me. Please take care of you, whatever that is. Hugs, Lyne
PosiesandPuppies said
Jul 14, 2019
Prayers for you both. Keep yourself safe.
Iamhere said
Jul 14, 2019
Sending prayers your way Kathleen!
Hoot Nanny said
Jul 16, 2019
I can't write it all down what happened last Saturday but we were talking divorce. He was saying that I am insane & i don't know it! I am not insane of course! Friends have been praying & was trying to use my tools. I have to admit that I yelled & tried to defend myself. Who wouldn't be upset when the man who you love call you insane. I have issues but so does. Not trying to point the finger! So it turns out that he was frustrated & that he didn't want to be my caretaker. He felt like he was losing it & that he was losing it! But it was to him all my fault. Today so far is better than Saturday. I know the prayers worked! God is good! He answers my prayers.
wp said
Jul 26, 2019
I know his behavior well, so don't let him take you down with him. We need the wisdom to know the difference ! wp
bud said
Jul 26, 2019
sending prayers... love what wp said!
lookingup said
Jul 27, 2019
((((((((((((((((Hoot Nanny)))))))))))))))
Prayers going out,,,,,,,,,,,,LU
This to shall pass....
Take care of yourself.
Prayers for you and for him.
Temple
Praying for both of you, Kathleen. This is not an easy road!
Prayers going out,,,,,,,,,,,,LU
This to shall pass....