As I sat this morning reflecting on 2018, with all of its incredible blessings and struggles I am grateful. To those whom are new, a very warm welcome and a message of hope that you are never alone even when it seems like it cannot get any worse this board has been and is a beacon of light to all of us. It is a place to come to at any hour of any day and someone will always reach out and extend a helping hand.
To those whom have lost a loved one through death, divorce, or perhaps born out of necessity as a protective boundary, I send my heartfelt prayers for you and for your loved ones struggling with addiction. I have received so much more here then I could ever give back and for that I thank all of you.
As I work on my own recovery, I notice small but significant changes in my stress, my overall health and relationships with others. Even though my addicted loved ones continue to struggle, I am able to change and have many moments of happiness return in my life. . I never thought that was possible. That is the gift of the program. I am forever a changed person having had the experience of an addicted loved one, but I think a better, kinder, more accepting person. There has been many lessons to be learned in this journey.
HP works in mysterious ways . This is a fine example of that where cyber strangers feel like friends united by a common bond not of our choosing. My wish for all of you is tremendous peace in 2019, moments of joy, and growth. Happy New Year.
-- Edited by serenity47 on Monday 31st of December 2018 04:01:14 PM
Iamhere said
Dec 31, 2018
Happy New Year right back to you Serenity!!! Love and light to you and yours and many wishes for a lovely new year, one day at a time! I am glad you shared and are part of my journey....keep coming back and know I pray for your daughter each day along with my boys and all who are struggling with this disease. I also pray for all in recovery and the family/friends who are affected by the disease. I agree that HP works in mysterious ways!
(((Hugs)))
JerryF said
Dec 31, 2018
I have been taught and shone a lot about gratitude on my journey in recovery. I am so fortunate to have reached that day that I needed to stop and rest and to do it here. My family lives here. ((((hugs))))
tiredtonite said
Dec 31, 2018
Thank you for the positive and heartfelt message of hope and gratitude. Happy New Year to you and all MIP recovering family members. ((hugs))) TT
mamalioness said
Dec 31, 2018
Hey Serenity47...Isn't it GREAT when we can actually look at the beginning of the year, and now and see PROGRESS??? I thought If I did that, I was slipping into over confidence, LOL AND that it was a BAD thing to think in any other terms but "I'm messed up and I need my program"
I HAVE changed and for the better....I've been hammered with "letting go" "detachment" to the point where I was doing a lot of grieving, crying, anger, etc., but I ACCEPT now that I can only manage me, so why not just focus on ME??? Now THERES a new one for me.....change me...change my energy...change my life for the better...
oh yea, this year was miserable in a lot of ways, but I've changed for the better...I'm a bit beat up by life being so hard, but I'm still here and I think I've broken through some reeely bad obsticles re: my self sabotaging and my fears, needing to always be in control
I may never like change or being powerless, but I can "ride it out' better then I did last year....they say, when you start really grasping the lesson and are willing to practice the healthy behavior, those awful patterns done repeat....I see myself being in a better place this coming year..emotionally, perceptions...managing my fears, casting my burdens to the universe, rather than to fight them..I see me even having hope.financially, even.......
I hope you and yours have a happy, healthy and prosperous New Year and thank you for your lovely share...I enjoyed reading it.......
DavidG said
Jan 1, 2019
We have just had 10 days with family and their friends from the USA.
I was really really sad to see them go. Our Sil went through rehab this year and is still 'the the early stages of recovery'.
I think she always will be... we always hung out together in Florida and formed a strong indelible bond. It is a strong mutually respectful love.
which I share with the whole family... issues... oh yes!
But this is their vacation- their holiday... time out... and a very good time for me to test my detachment.
Loved reading your share, my friend...
inspiring...
............
Bo said
Jan 1, 2019
Thanks for this thread and the posts. It is hard to focus on my grateful list while I am struggling. I review it, live it, embrace it, but the stinking thinking and whatever else is getting to me just seems to stay as the focal point. But, just for today, just for the moment, one day at a time, one minute at a time...I will apply and work my program...and steps one, two, and three...and will continue to keep trying, getting better, and getting healthy. Thanks again all.
As I sat this morning reflecting on 2018, with all of its incredible blessings and struggles I am grateful. To those whom are new, a very warm welcome and a message of hope that you are never alone even when it seems like it cannot get any worse this board has been and is a beacon of light to all of us. It is a place to come to at any hour of any day and someone will always reach out and extend a helping hand.
To those whom have lost a loved one through death, divorce, or perhaps born out of necessity as a protective boundary, I send my heartfelt prayers for you and for your loved ones struggling with addiction. I have received so much more here then I could ever give back and for that I thank all of you.
As I work on my own recovery, I notice small but significant changes in my stress, my overall health and relationships with others. Even though my addicted loved ones continue to struggle, I am able to change and have many moments of happiness return in my life. . I never thought that was possible. That is the gift of the program. I am forever a changed person having had the experience of an addicted loved one, but I think a better, kinder, more accepting person. There has been many lessons to be learned in this journey.
HP works in mysterious ways . This is a fine example of that where cyber strangers feel like friends united by a common bond not of our choosing. My wish for all of you is tremendous peace in 2019, moments of joy, and growth. Happy New Year.
-- Edited by serenity47 on Monday 31st of December 2018 04:01:14 PM
(((Hugs)))
I have been taught and shone a lot about gratitude on my journey in recovery. I am so fortunate to have reached that day that I needed to stop and rest and to do it here. My family lives here. ((((hugs))))
Thank you for the positive and heartfelt message of hope and gratitude. Happy New Year to you and all MIP recovering family members. ((hugs))) TT
I HAVE changed and for the better....I've been hammered with "letting go" "detachment" to the point where I was doing a lot of grieving, crying, anger, etc., but I ACCEPT now that I can only manage me, so why not just focus on ME??? Now THERES a new one for me.....change me...change my energy...change my life for the better...
oh yea, this year was miserable in a lot of ways, but I've changed for the better...I'm a bit beat up by life being so hard, but I'm still here and I think I've broken through some reeely bad obsticles re: my self sabotaging and my fears, needing to always be in control
I may never like change or being powerless, but I can "ride it out' better then I did last year....they say, when you start really grasping the lesson and are willing to practice the healthy behavior, those awful patterns done repeat....I see myself being in a better place this coming year..emotionally, perceptions...managing my fears, casting my burdens to the universe, rather than to fight them..I see me even having hope.financially, even.......
I hope you and yours have a happy, healthy and prosperous New Year and thank you for your lovely share...I enjoyed reading it.......
We have just had 10 days with family and their friends from the USA.
I was really really sad to see them go. Our Sil went through rehab this year and is still 'the the early stages of recovery'.
I think she always will be... we always hung out together in Florida and formed a strong indelible bond. It is a strong mutually respectful love.
which I share with the whole family... issues... oh yes!
But this is their vacation- their holiday... time out... and a very good time for me to test my detachment.
Loved reading your share, my friend...
inspiring...