often times I would have unrealistic expectations and end up disappointed and bitter
now I ask me. Is this expectation realistic?? Doable under my capabilities?? If it is reasonable, my HP will give me the power and resources to do it
the serenity prayer comes to mind where I ask for courage to change the things that I can change. I realize I can only change me
that abusive job I quit. My only expectation was for me to get out of abusive environment. If I expected an apology from her, I would have been disappointed. I never expected anything from her. Nothing at all. My only expectation was my relieving myself from abuse and bad environment
mamalioness said
Jun 24, 2018
I learned long ago that unrealistic expectations are premeditated resentments
mamalioness said
Jun 26, 2018
Well tomorrow I would have gone to the place where I quit..Instead , I'll be going to an office that is CLEAN, the client is NICE...respects me...yea, I needed the money that the other one brought to me but just gonna have to trust that because I put out good energy and did the right thing by me, I'll be OK...another good client will come my way in time
the 12 step prayer book goes into expectations
often times I would have unrealistic expectations and end up disappointed and bitter
now I ask me. Is this expectation realistic?? Doable under my capabilities?? If it is reasonable, my HP will give me the power and resources to do it
the serenity prayer comes to mind where I ask for courage to change the things that I can change. I realize I can only change me
that abusive job I quit. My only expectation was for me to get out of abusive environment. If I expected an apology from her, I would have been disappointed. I never expected anything from her. Nothing at all. My only expectation was my relieving myself from abuse and bad environment