Hello Lyne When I entered program , Humility was a challenge for me as I viewed it as degrading and could not embrace the principle.
Alanon's statement that" changed attitudes aid recovery" is so true. When i discovered the truth about humility, i readily embraced it. Now Humility signifies that when i have tried everything and discovered that i am truly powerless . I can then surrender to a Power Greater than myself and ask for help. I now understand and know that Man's extremity is God's opportunity. Great topic
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Thanks Lyne for the daily and your service. Thanks to you and Betty for your shares and ESH. I too struggled with the concept of humility as I had a/nother distorted definition or view of it. I confused humility with humiliated and considered it weak, less than, etc. I was asked to consider the idea of being teachable instead and that made it more easy for me to accept, digest, embrace and practice.

I know today that I'd rather be happy than right. I also know better today to select my battles wisely. I have learned through this program and my HP that I am a better person when I actively listen, determine my role if any, pause to consider my choices and allow my HP to lead me. Life is far from perfect, yet it's vastly improved and continues to do so one day at a time.

I am glad you posted early - I'm golfing in the AM tomorrow and going straight north to hang with my HS gal pals. My friend with cancer has had a return of the disease and we are gathering before she has surgery in the next week/so. It's going to be a long day but a fun-filled one. I desperately need it as we lost another program friend (double winner) to suicide on Thursday. That's 3 in my small piece of the world in a very short period of time, and I am reminded again how cunning, baffling and powerful this disease really is.

Make tomorrow as good as you can as we never know what lays ahead. (((Hugs))) to all!

Thanks for your service, Lyne, and the ESH shared above. Humility is still a tough one for me, and this reading reminds me that my resistance is causing me discomfort. I'm on a train to my workplace now, and the well-known anxiety is here again, and this seems so connected with this topic. I am again not surrendering to the fact that there are people around but fighting it inside of me, so there is the pain. The growth I see is that I'm acknowledging this and also there are times now when I don't have this social anxiety in transportation at all, and in general it has lessened in intensity somewhat.

Thank you everyone. This one is a challenge for me in this area. The workalholism/desire to get back to work/healthy again asap etc. I've been pondering the areas of applying the program to this for at least a week......really much longer. Time seems to get lost.....but today needs applied the most. Fear of going to PT this morning and a room full of men, too close quarters and the gossip there is horrendous. I go in and out of the quietness of the heart......but it's a challenge most of all when being around people in an uncomfortable setting. Today I talk to the PT about change...more so change of person/place and biz doing the PT. I don't need toxic added to my life while trying to heal. The area of injury to the spinal cord......needs the 7th step. I need to trust God more to take care of me and stop trying to push myself, rush the process. Anxiety a bit on overload and I see where I need to address the situation with humility and assertiveness.......oh boy..........

Good morning to all! Lyne, thank you for your service.
I like the imagery of today's reading - humility with quietness of heart. What comes to mind for me is the slogan about being gentle with ourselves. When I am gentle with myself, I can look at a situation and say that I wish I had handled it better, but know that I handled it the best way I could at the time. This allows me to ask HP for help, without fear or demeaning myself. What a lovely reading for a Monday morning. I hope everyone makes today a great day!