Call my mom or not? Might be toxic & a mistake. I want to know for sure. She may be angry. Do I take a risk? Boundaries in place.

Just speaking for myself HN.......I have been waiting until I feel peace/serenity from God before acting as much as possible. I know I won't blow it, foot in mouth problem......... or be sunk in emotions when that cue is there for me..........

Hugs!!!

Kathleen I would pray about it and listen to the still small voice within.

I'm reminded of the slogan....when in doubt, don't! That has served me well in addition to what has been suggested above me. Prayers and positive thoughts continue (((Kathleen)))....