After months of hardly any contact and then avoiding me, living with someone else it looks like I might finally get some closure. Iâve looked at my own behaviour a lot whilst Iâve been away from them. Iâve held back on my love a lot when theyâve started drinking. Pushed them away. Thereâs been too many secrets in our relationship and I know now your as sick as your secrets. Iâve been sick too. You have to let go of what causes you pain in the end to be truly happy. So we will meet at their request this week and then it will be NC for me and I will move on with my life. Part of me wants them to say sorry and declare undying love for me but that wonât happen. Anyone who has a sibling or child with A - I send you love as I know Cutting them out of your life is near impossible and glad you have al anon to help you Prays are with you all

((Carly)) Thanks for your well wishes Sending positive thoughts your way

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(((Carly))) - I'm also sending positive thoughts and prayers your way. Your plan sound forward-facing - good use of program tools!!