I haven't posted in a while. I have been no contact with my alcoholic for 3 months and he died tonight. I'm so sad. I still loved him but just could not live with the disease any longer, it was destroying me, but now I wish I could have stuck it out a bit longer to get to sy goodbye.
Jerry F said
Oct 31, 2017
Sorcha turn him over to your Higher Power and remember the 3 Cs.... you didn't cause his disease, could not control it and were not able to cure it. Will hang with you in this with prayer for him. ((((Hugs))))
-- Edited by Jerry F on Tuesday 31st of October 2017 11:03:15 PM
Sorcha said
Oct 31, 2017
Thanks Jerry.
Freetime said
Oct 31, 2017
I am sorry for your loss.
PosiesandPuppies said
Oct 31, 2017
Sorcha, I am sorry for your loss & your grief. Give yourself extra care. You and your loved one will be in my prayers tonight.
a4l said
Nov 1, 2017
Sending you all my love and prayers for comfort Sorcha. Sorry for your loss.
_bunny_ said
Nov 1, 2017
Im so very sorry for your loss, youre in my prayers.
SerenityRUS said
Nov 1, 2017
Sorcha big hugs .. I am so sorry for your loss.
He is at peace with something that was a demon in this life to live with and that is not your fault on any way.
I had to let go of the fact that whatever happens to the people I love and care for I am not in control of their life choices and whatever consequences come from those issues.
Hugs S
Skorpi said
Nov 1, 2017
I am so sorry for your loss.
When I find I have things left unsaid, I write a letter. Then, I burn it. I like to think that the flames and the ashes carry my message to where it needs to be.
hotrod said
Nov 1, 2017
((Sorcha))) I am so very sorry to read of your grief. I understand the pain of loss around this dreadful disease and found that attending al anon meetings, sharing and receiving the support of people who understand "as few others can" extremely helpful. Sending positive thoughts and prayers .
Iamhere said
Nov 1, 2017
(((Sorcha))) - I too am so sorry for your loss. Be gentle with you and know that we're sending positive thoughts and prayers your way. Huge (((hugs))) too...
Sorcha turn him over to your Higher Power and remember the 3 Cs.... you didn't cause his disease, could not control it and were not able to cure it. Will hang with you in this with prayer for him. ((((Hugs))))
-- Edited by Jerry F on Tuesday 31st of October 2017 11:03:15 PM
He is at peace with something that was a demon in this life to live with and that is not your fault on any way.
I had to let go of the fact that whatever happens to the people I love and care for I am not in control of their life choices and whatever consequences come from those issues.
Hugs S
When I find I have things left unsaid, I write a letter. Then, I burn it. I like to think that the flames and the ashes carry my message to where it needs to be.