I'm a newcomer here and I realize that I really need recovery to help heal me. I have heard "outreach" mentioned on phone meetings and was hoping I could do it on here as well, by putting myself out there in a moment of need. My past pains and fears of abandonment and loss have been triggered in my current relationship with a man who has over a decade of sobriety. I was hoping by putting myself out here I could begin communication, which I know is vital in this program. I need to move past old fears and be a fully thriving human being. I need to move on and let go of these old deep pains and heal from emotional wounds. I have spent a year getting past trauma and emotional pain and desperately do not want to backtrack. I want to avoid becoming deeply depressed, isolating or losing my love over lifetime long fears holding me back.
My name is Sally and if anyone has time to talk, or any advice, it would be very greatly appreciated.
Thank you so much.
hotrod said
Jan 16, 2017
Hello Sally Alanon face to face meetings held in most communities will help you address your need to connect with others who understand as few others can The tools such as the slogans, the Steps telephone contact all empathize the importance of letting go of the past and living in the present moment. We have on line meetings here 2xs a day and the chat room is open 24/7
here is the link:
Meetings 9 AM EST Mon-Fri 9 PM EST Mon-Sat 10 AM EST Sat & Sun 7 PM EST Sunday
http://www.12stepforums.net/chatroom2.html
There is hope
WaitingForTheSun said
Jan 16, 2017
Thanks so much for your response. Face to face has been a challenge as I've been on the road but I do realize their importance. I'll have to check out that chat room as well.
Thank you for saying there is hope. I really needed to hear that right now.
hotrod said
Jan 16, 2017
((Sally)) You are not alone and please do keep connecting and coming back
Hello,
I'm a newcomer here and I realize that I really need recovery to help heal me. I have heard "outreach" mentioned on phone meetings and was hoping I could do it on here as well, by putting myself out there in a moment of need. My past pains and fears of abandonment and loss have been triggered in my current relationship with a man who has over a decade of sobriety. I was hoping by putting myself out here I could begin communication, which I know is vital in this program. I need to move past old fears and be a fully thriving human being. I need to move on and let go of these old deep pains and heal from emotional wounds. I have spent a year getting past trauma and emotional pain and desperately do not want to backtrack. I want to avoid becoming deeply depressed, isolating or losing my love over lifetime long fears holding me back.
My name is Sally and if anyone has time to talk, or any advice, it would be very greatly appreciated.
Thank you so much.
Hello Sally Alanon face to face meetings held in most communities will help you address your need to connect with others who understand as few others can The tools such as the slogans, the Steps telephone contact all empathize the importance of letting go of the past and living in the present moment. We have on line meetings here 2xs a day and the chat room is open 24/7
here is the link:
Meetings
9 AM EST Mon-Fri
9 PM EST Mon-Sat
10 AM EST Sat & Sun
7 PM EST Sunday
http://www.12stepforums.net/chatroom2.html
There is hope
Thank you for saying there is hope. I really needed to hear that right now.
((Sally)) You are not alone and please do keep connecting and coming back