I got free from an abusive dysfunctional relationship through alanon. By saying things like 'you might be right' and actually believing that yes from your point of view you might be. Saying ' I'm sorry you feel that way' again, meaning it. I was sorry my alcoholic feels angry and hostile but I was not taking responsibility for how they feel any longer.
Freetime said
Dec 27, 2016
That is wonderful. So glad to hear how these tools have worked for you. Welcome to Miracles In Progress. I would love to hear more of your story.
hotrod said
Dec 27, 2016
Welcome Easy Those tools do work when we are sincere(as you are ) in making these statements. Glad that you are here and sharing the journey
lookingup said
Dec 27, 2016
Thank you easy for sharing,,I'm been practicing new tools also ,yes they do work,,,I'm grateful for alanon ,keep on a keeping on,your worth it ......hugs...lu
Iamhere said
Dec 28, 2016
Welcome to MIP Easy - I love the real life examples of....'It works when you work it and you're worth it'.....so, so true and hopeful. Glad that you are here - keep coming back!
I got free from an abusive dysfunctional relationship through alanon. By saying things like 'you might be right' and actually believing that yes from your point of view you might be. Saying ' I'm sorry you feel that way' again, meaning it. I was sorry my alcoholic feels angry and hostile but I was not taking responsibility for how they feel any longer.
Welcome Easy Those tools do work when we are sincere(as you are ) in making these statements. Glad that you are here and sharing the journey