10th anniv here, asked husb to please be straight, supposed to pick me up at work at 5pm to go to dinner. Called him, he's drunk was still at home at 5:10 and he still is not here (it takes 30 mins to get here) 6:10 now no husb. Any thoughts on what I should say?? I am so disapponted and pis!#/^^^ off.
Help!
Worried Wife said
Nov 11, 2016
My neighbor told me he is standing outside our front dooor, she's thinking he locked himself out...he has been standing there for 30 minutes.It's now 6:53 and I' m waiting for a cab now. I do not know what I'm going to say or do when I get home.
Fancypants said
Nov 11, 2016
Now might not be the best time to talk about it if he's been drinking. I'm glad you are taking a cab and being safe.
Worried Wife said
Nov 11, 2016
True that I'm gonna take a drive somewhere
Thank you!
Iamhere said
Nov 12, 2016
(((Naomi))) - sorry for the way the evening turned out. My hope is that your drive was lovely and a break from the insanity of the disease, even if just for a short while. I totally understand your anger and uncertainty. My hope is you've got meetings nearby and can lean into your program to help you deal/heal from the disease.
Keep coming back - you are not alone!
FooledMeTwice said
Nov 12, 2016
I'm so sorry you had to spend your wedding anniversary in this type of misery. I guess the one good thing is that he didn't drink and drive to come pick you up and risk your life and his. I hope today can be a better day for you and you can do something for yourself to make yourself happy.
Now might not be the best time to talk about it if he's been drinking. I'm glad you are taking a cab and being safe.
Keep coming back - you are not alone!