Im so grateful to be out of the insanity, the whirling dervish that was my life 8 mths ago. XAH has of course relapsed after his 4-5 mth stay in rehab and now down the slippery slope to death by bottle of vodka[ many bottles of vodka]

Me, Im unemployed still, money running low but Im happier then Ive been ever. I try to balance my independence with my new guy who is so good to me,kind wise and supportive. 

I have my cat and little projects i do while seeking employment. There are still complications with me & x,s house, tax debt and my x sis in law dragging her feet, trying to solve x's situation. But that is her circus. She chose it. I try to have as little to do with that situation as i can

I go alot of places, i smile and laugh alot. I feel very free....

alyce

Sunday is my birthday. A new fresh year ahead .

Hi Alyce,

Happy birthday to you Sunday!

I am coming to believe that gratitude is one of the biggest healers! Loved your post and so glad you are in a great spot, despite all the other stuff. Good for you and thank you for your inspirational post!

Ellen

Happy Birthday Alyce I hope everything continues to go well with you. Permit Al-Anon to help you stay serene and sane.  ((((hugs))))                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                      \