it all started because i ordered some bras ...lol. They were delivered to my old house where xah lives. So i had to call him and call to send them to me...which opened a line of communication that has virtually been sealed for 9 mths . Now, he has lots of questions about the house, his doctor,bills etc that his sis in law overloaded with tons of family problems including him, didnt know.
So he calls and i fall back easily into spewing answers, offering advice and guidance..THEN I GET OFF PHONE AND YELL " OMG !!!!! IM DOING IT AGAIN !!!!!!!!!!" STOP STOP ALYCE."
GIVE ME STRENGTH AND SERENITY HP, BECAUSE I FELL BACK INTO OLD HABITS ... MUST STOP COLD !!
A :[
hotrod said
Aug 2, 2016
*((((Alyce))) Remember that it is Progress not perfection we seek It took us a long time to even recognize the destructive tools that we had developed and it will take time to shed them completely.
On a positive note at least you saw it immediately and reached for support .
KennyFenderjazz said
Aug 2, 2016
Agree with Betty, it's good you recognized it quickly. Definitely making progress!
Kenny
Iamhere said
Aug 2, 2016
(((Alyce))) - positive thoughts and prayers your way girl - I agree - great job recognizing so you can continue your path with your truth - progress not perfection is spot on...
Maresie said
Aug 2, 2016
The person who has to most respect my boundaries is ironically me
Maresie
Bethany66 said
Aug 4, 2016
Maresie wrote:
The person who has to most respect my boundaries is ironically me Maresie
Oh boy!! That one hit home today. Thanks Maresie! I needed that.
it all started because i ordered some bras ...lol. They were delivered to my old house where xah lives. So i had to call him and call to send them to me...which opened a line of communication that has virtually been sealed for 9 mths . Now, he has lots of questions about the house, his doctor,bills etc that his sis in law overloaded with tons of family problems including him, didnt know.
So he calls and i fall back easily into spewing answers, offering advice and guidance..THEN I GET OFF PHONE AND YELL " OMG !!!!! IM DOING IT AGAIN !!!!!!!!!!" STOP STOP ALYCE."
GIVE ME STRENGTH AND SERENITY HP, BECAUSE I FELL BACK INTO OLD HABITS ... MUST STOP COLD !!
A :[
On a positive note at least you saw it immediately and reached for support .
Kenny
Oh boy!! That one hit home today. Thanks Maresie! I needed that.
ESH abounds on the MIP message board!!