Yesterday my husband ask me to get chinese and I said no so he ask if he could use the car and I  said no. So he keep going outside and then coming back in. Then he said he friend just stop by. His friend never leaves his house. Well any way he wanted to go with his friend some where. He end up going to the race track after an hour he called me to tell me he was going there. I know i don't  have proof but i think that he was having his friend bring him for drugs because his friends does it. Well tommorw he is going by this friend and he has asked me not to go over he wants to be alone. BUt mind u his wife will problary be there. Well he told me ahead of time so I can 't really say anything he not disappering and he gave me advice notice. So I made plans to go to see my mom and spend some time with her instead of staying home wondering what is going on.

(((((( nycbt ))))))

You're strength is admirable & inspiring, thanks.

((((NYCBT))))

You set your boundaries and you stuck to them, you did great.

Now you are making plans and spending time eith your Mom. Keep taking care of you.

                                                      Love Jeannie

good for you. i also can feel the strength in your post. You sound very serious and what you say is what you mean. Your detaching sounds good too. May ask where you are? I am in Oregon. love and oh yes, give your mom hugs for me, moms are very precious, debilyn

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 So I made plans to go to see my mom and spend some time with her instead of staying home wondering what is going on.

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good for U....taking care of U....letting go, letting god.....gr8 progress, hugs/ rosie