Hope you all had a wonderful New Year's Eve. I spent the evening watching videos with my son and his g/f ..it was a quiet night, but a nice one..I was in bed around 11:30 and a great sleep...My A called me on Friday and we had a great visit for 4 hours. He did open up to me about his guilt and fears. He is planning to see a counselor on this and I highly encouarged him. I hope he can find himself through all this and will see that drinking has caused a lot of his issues. I care about him and will be his friend, although at times, it is difficult as I want a relationship with him, but for now I focus on me and my needs. We have so much in common and can communicate about anything...we trust each other enough to share our deepest darkest fears and secrets.
I will just take this one day at a time and ask for God's strength for both of us.
I wish you all the best in 2006~~take care and enjoy your day! I am off to church..
In recover, Diane
Maria123 said
Jan 1, 2006
(((((((((Diane))))))))))))),
Loving an A is one of the greatest challenges to face. Wishing you the best. Continue taking care of you ~~ keep the focus on you and then whatever happens you will be able to cope with because as we change, we continue to grow positively.
Good morning everyone and Happy New Year!
Hope you all had a wonderful New Year's Eve.
I spent the evening watching videos with my son and his g/f ..it was a quiet night, but a nice one..I was in bed around 11:30 and a great sleep...My A called me on Friday and we had a great visit for 4 hours. He did open up to me about his guilt and fears. He is planning to see a counselor on this and I highly encouarged him. I hope he can find himself through all this and will see that drinking has caused a lot of his issues. I care about him and will be his friend, although at times, it is difficult as I want a relationship with him, but for now I focus on me and my needs. We have so much in common and can communicate about anything...we trust each other enough to share our deepest darkest fears and secrets.
I will just take this one day at a time and ask for God's strength for both of us.
I wish you all the best in 2006~~take care and enjoy your day! I am off to church..
In recover, Diane
(((((((((Diane))))))))))))),
Loving an A is one of the greatest challenges to face. Wishing you the best. Continue taking care of you ~~ keep the focus on you and then whatever happens you will be able to cope with because as we change, we continue to grow positively.
Keep posting,
Maria123