I have come along way. Yesterday I came home and did my wash that is a great thing in itself. I have problems doing my wash. I have waited months to do it. I have done it every week since I wash my clothes on Friday of Thanksgiving. Then I took a shower which I have had problems doing that as well. So that is two good things I have done. Then my husband went out around 8 and didn't come home until 11 and I didn't call him one time. That was the biggest thing. I usually cut, or throw glass, look over the whole neighborhood for him and i didn't do any of them.
bobump said
Dec 14, 2005
That's awesome !
Keep sharing those personal victories with us. I don't know about you but it really helps me when I do. I've done some things and couldn't wait to come online and share them. For me it's healthy to express joy as well as some of the less pleasant emotions we have to share.
{{{nycbt}}}
Bob
megan said
Dec 14, 2005
Hi NYCBT
Great job doing the wash! Excellent progress with that.
And a shower too very nice :)
I am very proud of you for not calling him when he left.
You are taking care of YOU :)
You have made FANTASTIC progress my friend :)
Megan
KathyS said
Dec 14, 2005
Great job! Just more reassurance that this program works IF you work it. Good job at working it.
rosie light shines said
Dec 14, 2005
NYC>>>>>>>>I didn't call him one time. That was the biggest thing
ROSIE>>>>>>>>>>>GOOD 4 U......YAAAAY!!! that was a "biggie" i used to do the same thing.....go NUTS when X was overdue commin home........thank god i am 1--not with an active A.....2-- not in that coda crap anymore......proof of that is my beloved brother whom i am REALLY close to....i just go my "merry way" not expecting ANYthing from him....just accepting him AS IS....sweet but UNdependable.............peace/ rosie
TLC2 said
Dec 14, 2005
Proud of you girl!!! Big squishy hug to you too!!!! Lotsa Love, TLC
I have come along way. Yesterday I came home and did my wash that is a great thing in itself. I have problems doing my wash. I have waited months to do it. I have done it every week since I wash my clothes on Friday of Thanksgiving. Then I took a shower which I have had problems doing that as well. So that is two good things I have done. Then my husband went out around 8 and didn't come home until 11 and I didn't call him one time. That was the biggest thing. I usually cut, or throw glass, look over the whole neighborhood for him and i didn't do any of them.
Hi NYCBT
Great job doing the wash! Excellent progress with that.
And a shower too very nice :)
I am very proud of you for not calling him when he left.
You are taking care of YOU :)
You have made FANTASTIC progress my friend :)
Megan
NYC>>>>>>>>I didn't call him one time. That was the biggest thing
ROSIE>>>>>>>>>>>GOOD 4 U......YAAAAY!!! that was a "biggie" i used to do the same thing.....go NUTS when X was overdue commin home........thank god i am 1--not with an active A.....2-- not in that coda crap anymore......proof of that is my beloved brother whom i am REALLY close to....i just go my "merry way" not expecting ANYthing from him....just accepting him AS IS....sweet but UNdependable.............peace/ rosie