Its hard to be humble and walk into AlAnon (and I only go F2F once a wk!) Hard to walk into Church too but its easier than walking into AlAnon.

Really?  I don't see that for me anyways?  What do you mean?

Aron

Hello Barbara, walking anywhere and asking for help is humbling since most of us have thought we could do it on our own.  Living with an A is truly too  much for most of us.  I believe that when we  humble ourselves to ask for help we are now teachable.  Alone in our own heads were doomed.

Humility is not humiliation - remember the saying we have all heard for yrs. ? God helps those who help themselves.  Someone told me  thats not true . God helps those who ask.  Makes sence to me .   Al-Anon gets e asier all the time  take a chance and share where your at at this point u have nothing to loose and alot to gain. Never alone again !! what a concept.  good luck  keep on going to meetings  and focus on yourself .    Louise