well my a met up with an addictions counsellor and will see him again in a week. they set up some goals and plans for what to do with pressure or the urge creeps up to drink or use again. im not getting my hopes up but i will see what happens. i will stand by my man down the road to recovery but will have to leave if he gives up. i know he could relapse and i will still be here but if he says he doesnt need help like he used to then thats my cue to leave. so i will hope and pray for the rest and take care of myself as well.

Sounds like you too have set your own boundries and are handling this very well.

Keep it up notso, and keep us posted !

{{notsones}}

HOpe your A keeps ti up notsonew, thats kinda the situation I am in just now, having hope, but not letting my hopes convince me he will do it this time - only time will tell.

 

I hope it all works out for you guys.

 

((((((((((((((NSN)))))))))))))),

I agree with Bob, sounds like you have some good boundaries set up, and a plan if the boundaries are crossed.

Keep Coming Back!

Much Love,