Hey Kathy, I shared about my A and you asked me how I'm doing. I'm doing ok. I really am. Everyday is a tough chore for me. It really is. But to live with an alcoholic and for him to really want to try is also a blessing. Thank you so much for being concerned. We all have problems and some days we think our problems are all that matters. Sometimes I wish I could save the world but I know I can't. Thanks again Kathy for being concerned.

Cathy

I'm glad to hear it.  I know for me there was a time whenever anyone would ask me.......How are you?  I'd go right into every little thing going on with my A.  I never even realized I did this pre program.  But I did it, and often.  It took me a long time to work on that and get to the point that when someone asked me how *I* was doing, really tell them about me and not my A.  I was so focused on him that if he had a good day, I'd consider that a good day for me too.  When he had a bad day, well then I'd have a horrible day.  I based my every feeling and emotion on him, and never focused on myself.