my partner asked in a very caring manner would you like to veiw your post`s . i thought he was being sweet and lovely. NO he just wanted me to read his post on the A.A. site . he is such a attention seeker. his post was very well written!!!, although a bit random. he also recived a phone call from a chap in A.A. which pleased him no end . he confessed to sulking because no-one had rung him . I am only beginning to see the real man now. But the stuff that upset`s him is weired. but now i am more able to deal with it. i used to want to make things better for him and sort his stuff out. but now i let him get on with it[which is hard to do ,as i may be a controll freak, but none of us are perfect] get on with getting on with my ventures. i. know i need to go to a Al.Anon meeting,but still searching for one . I really love my partner with all his little foybles bless him
Mars
nycbt said
Oct 28, 2005
Hi Mars
It is hard not to control a person. My husband after almost two months has started back in AA. It is hard not to control him. However I know there is nothing I can do. I can't babysit or I should say I don't want to babysit. But aren't all acholic attetnion seekers.
TLC2 said
Oct 28, 2005
YA GOT THAT RIGHT!! nycbt, Tee hee, but we love 'em anyway. TLC
my partner asked in a very caring manner would you like to veiw your post`s . i thought he was being sweet and lovely. NO he just wanted me to read his post on the A.A. site . he is such a attention seeker. his post was very well written!!!, although a bit random. he also recived a phone call from a chap in A.A. which pleased him no end . he confessed to sulking because no-one had rung him . I am only beginning to see the real man now. But the stuff that upset`s him is weired. but now i am more able to deal with it. i used to want to make things better for him and sort his stuff out. but now i let him get on with it[which is hard to do ,as i may be a controll freak, but none of us are perfect
] get on with getting on with my ventures. i. know i need to go to a Al.Anon meeting,but still searching for one . I really love my partner with all his little foybles bless him
Mars
Hi Mars
It is hard not to control a person. My husband after almost two months has started back in AA. It is hard not to control him. However I know there is nothing I can do. I can't babysit or I should say I don't want to babysit. But aren't all acholic attetnion seekers.