You guys are the best! I was almost afraid to post, my friends and family have been supportive with me, and you all have been there. I was afraid of the negative, but you all have come through once again giving me examples of living with an active A. My expectations are realistic. I do not expect that my A will change, I know now that I can not change him. I also know that there are things I can accept and things that I will not accept. I have learned in the last year about healthy boundries. I wanted you to know that in the last year I have started praying again! In the last 6 months I have Let go and am Letting God. I have so much faith I would never have found without Alanon. I will do my best to take care of me and to make the changes I need to make. You are all in my prayers.
Hugs Mary
whitie said
Oct 17, 2005
Mary,
Stay strong, you're doing good:)
nycbt said
Oct 18, 2005
WOW good change. Your on the right path to changing. GOOD JOB. KEEP UP THE GOOD WORK.
browneyes said
Oct 18, 2005
(((((((((((Mary)))))))))))))))))
I wish you all the best and keep posting.. You have lots of friends here !
You guys are the best! I was almost afraid to post, my friends and family have been supportive with me, and you all have been there. I was afraid of the negative, but you all have come through once again giving me examples of living with an active A. My expectations are realistic. I do not expect that my A will change, I know now that I can not change him. I also know that there are things I can accept and things that I will not accept. I have learned in the last year about healthy boundries. I wanted you to know that in the last year I have started praying again! In the last 6 months I have Let go and am Letting God. I have so much faith I would never have found without Alanon. I will do my best to take care of me and to make the changes I need to make. You are all in my prayers.
Hugs Mary
(((((((((((Mary)))))))))))))))))
I wish you all the best and keep posting.. You have lots of friends here !
Love Julie